funkyfreshdc Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 yet another girl i was working on dropped the "b word" today. what to do? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadygroovedc Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc yet another girl i was working on dropped the "b word" today. what to do? You keep talking puppy dogs and ice cream cones and of course you're gonna end up on the friendship tip.And the "b word" is only a Yield sign, not a Stop sign. If they were really serious, they'd have a ring. At least, that's what I believe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted October 17 Author Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by shadygroovedc And the "b word" is only a Yield sign, not a Stop sign. If they were really serious, they'd have a ring. At least, that's what I believe. that's probably the attitude i need to take -- a lot of these girls have bf's carried over from high school and are still convinced that long distance relationships aren't so bad. i'm just not used to having to put in so much work.how does vicman cope? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kken Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc how does vicman cope? he posts a lot on messageboards... just like you are doing today. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadygroovedc Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc that's probably the attitude i need to take -- a lot of these girls have bf's carried over from high school and are still convinced that long distance relationships aren't so bad. i'm just not used to having to put in so much work.Shady's rules: If they say "hi" they obviously want to sleep with you. If they don't want to sleep with you, they're obviously lesbian.how does vicman cope? By being gay? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted October 17 Author Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by kken he posts a lot on messageboards... just like you are doing today. keep talkin like that and i'll put your face in my sig too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moto Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by shadygroovedc Shady's rules: If they say "hi" they obviously want to sleep with you. If they don't want to sleep with you, they're obviously lesbian Another "no means yes" follower... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
layousugar Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by shadygroovedc Shady's rules: If they say "hi" they obviously want to sleep with you. If they don't want to sleep with you, they're obviously lesbian. aww that's not true! we could be bored as all hell and have simply resorted to conversation with anyone in a 3 foot radius. it's not "hi" that means they want to sleep with you - it's "*sigh* i'm so boreddd.... wanna go back to my place and .... 'talk'? *wink-wink*" that means they want to sleep with you. come on, we're not THAT confusing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadygroovedc Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by moto Another "no means yes" follower... When a lady says 'No', she means 'Maybe'. When a lady says 'Maybe', she means 'Yes'. And when she says 'Yes', it means she's not a lady. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jonyquest Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc yet another girl i was working on dropped the "b word" today. what to do? you cant let it affect you. if you do you run the risk of getting into "fear of rejection" mode, and that is the worse for a guy. there are lots of women out there and you never know if that girl's BF will dump her ass soon. Long distance relationship or not, any normal guy is only willing to go so long with out nookie on a regular basis with out having to put in any effort or money for it . . . that is what GF's are for. a lot of times it's jut a waiting game. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moto Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Did this thread just got really ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moto Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Su telenovela de la noche! Con Vic, el Moderador del amor... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 of course the easiest way would be to get her drunk during happy hour and end up taking her to your place afterwards for a nightcap. . . that never fails Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by moto Did this thread just got really ? the thread broke the gay-o-meter from the first post. what type of fruitcake asks other people what to do when some chick he's pursuing drops the "b" word? either get her drunk and get frisky with her, continue macking it, or stfu and move on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
moto Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by vicman the thread broke the gay-o-meter from the first post. what type of fruitcake asks other people what to do when some chick he's pursuing drops the "b" word? either get her drunk and get frisky with her or stfu and move on. I'm wifchya on this 1 vato Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted October 17 Author Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by vicman the thread broke the gay-o-meter from the first post. :laugh: i guess that's why u actually wrote a semi-profound response and it's actually not just one girl, but basically every single girl i have met at gw in the last 6 weeks. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted October 17 Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc :laugh: i guess that's why u actually wrote a semi-profound response and it's actually not just one girl, but basically every single girl i have met at gw in the last 6 weeks. trust me, i've been down this road before. fucked up thing is when you actually have a gf, that's when they seem to fall easier. all you can do is keep insisting, some of them might be talking the truth and not interested, and others are bullshiting you just to see how much you really are interested in them. . . then they will be putty in your hands . . . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted October 17 Author Report Share Posted October 17 Originally posted by vicman trust me, i've been down this road before. i believe it. fucked up thing is when you actually have a gf, that's when they seem to fall easier. definitely. when i had a girl, other chicks were hitting on me left and right. now no girl, and all the other chicks are gone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pgiddy Posted October 18 Report Share Posted October 18 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc yet another girl i was working on dropped the "b word" today. what to do? Three questions:IS she a good cook?Does she like to clean? Does she give good head?If the answer is yes then go for it, don't forget you can always trade her in....think of it like leasing a car....... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockyblue Posted October 20 Report Share Posted October 20 Originally posted by vicman ...all you can do is keep insisting... if you want to get a reputation as a guy who is too thick headed to understand the word no, then this is fantastic advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
funkyfreshdc Posted October 20 Author Report Share Posted October 20 doesn't no mean yes?why don't girls ever make any sense? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vicman Posted October 20 Report Share Posted October 20 i've seen even the most thickheaded girls say "no" and after insisting a bit more end up saying "yes."all in all, unless they slap you with a restraining order, keep insisting. like i said, for some they trully mean "no" for other it's "maybe" for others it's "no, but try a bit more, it will be yes."men and women don't make sense at all, and we don't come with a manual, so keep on trying until she says yes, or calls the police on you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriaki Posted October 20 Report Share Posted October 20 Originally posted by funkyfreshdc yet another girl i was working on dropped the "b word" today. what to do? For better or worse, here's what I do:Make it clear from the outset that you're interested in her. Don't wait around for her -- that never works. Instead, go about things the way you normally would and wait for the right moment.It's possible there never will be a right moment, and depending on how much you've started to care about the girl you may need to take some time to deal. If the right time happens, she knows you are interested.Don't make a nuisance of yourself. Don't press the issue. And by god man, whatever you do, don't take vicman's advice. First of all, you'll have to hear her say "haven't you heard a word I've said?" more than once, and let me tell you... that wouldn't be fun.When I started dating my last girlfriend, she told me she had just broken up with someone and wasn't ready to start a relationship again. We went out a few times where she knew I was interested in her but I didn't try to make any moves on her. She later told me that she really appreciated how I listened to her and paid attention to what *she* wanted. We went out for about a year.Be around, stay friendly, let her know you're interested, but don't wait around for her.(I should write a love advice column on Slate or something.)(Thank god Monday Night Football is on soon. I'm feeling slightly gay after writing all that.) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rockyblue Posted October 21 Report Share Posted October 21 Originally posted by teriaki Don't make a nuisance of yourself. Don't press the issue. And by god man, whatever you do, don't take vicman's advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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