copahc Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 to hook up with someone a few days after you broke up with your boyfriend?i'm so confused Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandora1305 Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 nowhy would that be bad?most people split up well after they are sick and tired of each other anyway so you were probably way ready to be with someone else Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 depends on how long you were with the boyfriend, how things ended & where your relationship with him is now... but in general, not a good idea... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 Originally posted by pandora1305 most people split up well after they are sick and tired of each other anyway so you were probably way ready to be with someone else maybe, but that's also called rebounding... that can turn into a hassle if you don't have your feelings sorted out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted March 10 Author Report Share Posted March 10 yeah i have this bad feeling about it.I like hanging out with this guy... but i don't really like kissing him all that muchand he wants to come over tonight, so i don't know what to do...because i feel like i want to see him...i'm wondering if i just want to hang out with him because i'm lonely or something Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandora1305 Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 hang out with your gf'snot with some dude you don't like to kiss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted March 10 Author Report Share Posted March 10 Originally posted by pandora1305 hang out with your gf'snot with some dude you don't like to kiss haha... i guess you're rightthat does sound pretty stupid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandora1305 Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 ending a r/t suxeven when it's your ideahow long were you guys together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted March 10 Author Report Share Posted March 10 a year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pandora1305 Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 Originally posted by copahc a year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted March 10 Author Report Share Posted March 10 yeah it just wasn't working...i really don't know what else to say about iti just think i started to lose interest or something Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i3itch Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 as long as you're definitely broken up and over it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 note to self:Heather is now single - find a way to comment on your good kissing skills soon...jk...i was never good with "time" before and after relationships...but i am good about the kissing variable...if the kissing aint good, then it's doomed...at least for me it is...hope you're doing ok... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 10 Report Share Posted March 10 Originally posted by copahc to hook up with someone a few days after you broke up with your boyfriend?i'm so confused nope... the best way to get over a woman/man is to get under a new one~! lol j/k, but in all seriousness define hook up... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
copahc Posted March 12 Author Report Share Posted March 12 Originally posted by phatman note to self:Heather is now single - find a way to comment on your good kissing skills soon...jk...i was never good with "time" before and after relationships...but i am good about the kissing variable...if the kissing aint good, then it's doomed...at least for me it is...hope you're doing ok... does that mean you're single too? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
naughtybabe Posted March 12 Report Share Posted March 12 Aww Heather you obviously feel bad because it didn't mean anything... Just don't think of it - It was nothing more then a rebound .. We somehow find ourselves doing this sort of thing when we are freshout of a break up (trust me I did it and - then thought twice aboutit because it was nothing but a spur of the moment)Give yourself time to heal.. Don't rush into anything and if things happen don't question them. Everything happens for a reason.If you need to chat you know my AIM - Feel better babe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Destiny Posted March 13 Report Share Posted March 13 Naughtybabe is right...everything does happen for a reason. Dont force anything, you need time to be by yourself. It def. sounds like a rebound. You were with him for a year, youre prob feeling lonely right now. Take this as an opportunity to have time by yourself until you find the next person you'd like to be with. If you want to talk PM meFeel better hun:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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