phatman Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 ...we're about to enter phase two...or is this phase three?...i dont know phases... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fldomestic Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 I want to lay on the beach for the next year phase Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smcx04 Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 I'm in the "I had wayy too fucking much to drink and girls are bitches phase" right now...overall i'm in the "i'm in school and it sucks balls phase"Btw I can never understand the "work hard,play hard" thing...take as example a student and a weekend...you study during the week and then you still have studying during the weekend to do but you're partyin your ass off...so how do you get the other shit done if you're partying like an animal? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted March 21 Report Share Posted March 21 Originally posted by iamme What "phase" are you going through right now?? im in the "quarter life crisis" phase... i feel like ive done too lil to move on and too much to go back... They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going along with the crowd and start realizing that there are a lot of things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get hot and scared because you barely know where you are now. You start realizing that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you do not realize is that they are realizing that too and are not really cold or catty or mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you are. You look at your job. It is not even close to what you thought you would be doing or maybe you are looking for one and realizing that you are going to have to start at the bottom and are scared. You miss the comforts of college, of groups, of socializing with the same people on a constant basis. But then you realize that maybe they weren't so great after all. You are beginning to understand yourself and what you want and do not want. Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging a bit more than usual because suddenly you realize that you have certain boundaries in your life and add things to your list of what is acceptable and what is not. You are insecure and then secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life. You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly change is the enemy and you cry and cling on to the past with dear life but soon realize that the past is drifting further and further away and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward. The stupid ones plateau, the smart ones rise. You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough to get to know better. You love someone but maybe love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you are not a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap and getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic. You go through the same emotions and questions over and over and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You wonder what in the hell is wrong with you. You worry about loans and money and the future and making a life for yourself and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamme Posted March 21 Author Report Share Posted March 21 ^^ditto ^^ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bumpdaddy Posted March 22 Report Share Posted March 22 Originally posted by lolahotass was she that ugly:confused: j/k naaah... just a psycho ex I should stay away from Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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