georgym Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Met this girl wendesday night. I actually knew her a bit in college, and we spoke a bit.I got her number, and she left saying goodbye and rubbing my arm. Everything seems kool,,,,So this happened wednesday night. I want to know when i should call her. The girls i've asked say call her right away, or tonight.The guys say wait till Saturday or monday.It seems like the more i think of this, the more factors that come into play.I don't want to repeat what happened in Swingers, so come on and give me your opinions! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 since alot of people have a long weekend, you might wanna call her today so you can make plans to do something together. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore since alot of people have a long weekend, you might wanna call her today so you can make plans to do something together. yeah, it seems to come down to calling her either today or tomorrow.does it really make a difference when i call her thou? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 "follow your heart"seriously..call her tonight....you're not a kid..so stop playin kid games Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 call today...think about it, she´ll be out tonight (friday night) and tomorrow... both nights are SUPREME pick-up opportunities. if she is any attractive she´ll be PREY out there. lots of guys will talk with her and hit on her... maybe she´ll even get horny, drunk and goes home with one TONIGHT... the more guys she talks with, the more impact you lose (because of the time and sheer overload of feelings she gets from a weekend night out)... take it from a playa dude besides from simple logistics like this, call whenever you want. the second you think about if you should call her or wait till tommorrow, you are starting to play GAMES... forget it and call when you feel like calling. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mystify Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 I'd say call her today, waiting around is just bullshit, if she gave you her number, she wants you to call and if you actually wait, it looks lame bc it's obivious you did that 'wait 2 day crap'....you like her, you have her number, so just call already! she will be happy to hear from you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Im am definitely NOT a game player. I dislike games.But i have called too soon in the past and appeared over-eager, which screwed me up.Ill either call today or tomorrow. I appreciate your imputs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by Mystify22 I'd say call her today, waiting around is just bullshit, if she gave you her number, she wants you to call and if you actually wait, it looks lame bc it's obivious you did that 'wait 2 day crap'....you like her, you have her number, so just call already! she will be happy to hear from you! I am really thinking about calling her today. i think i will! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gmccookny I am really thinking about calling her today. i think i will! DO IT TODAY! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore DO IT TODAY! 10$ he´s gonna chicken out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaydup Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 NOW DO IT RIGHT NOW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tastey 10$ he´s gonna chicken out ur on!!!he's gonna do it & get a date for this wkend! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tranzwhore ur on!!!he's gonna do it & get a date for this wkend! hey, if he´ll end up getting some i´ll be glad to pay it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tastey hey, if he´ll end up getting some i´ll be glad to pay it You can get me back with some brews come Oktoberfest And yes, i will call her today at 3. I'll post a message about what went down...THANKS 4 the encouragement. WISH ME LUCK!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gmccookny You can get me back with some brews come Oktoberfest And yes, i will call her today at 3. I'll post a message about what went down...THANKS 4 the encouragement. WISH ME LUCK!!! good luck, bro man! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 oookkkkkk......i say u calllll rrrriiiiiiiiiiggghhhhttttt, about........................now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gmccookny Met this girl wendesday night. I actually knew her a bit in college, and we spoke a bit. you shoulda called her on the same night you met her. preferably at around 3 am all drunk and mumbling. drunk dialing is the best. if she really was all into you, she wouldnt have minded you trying to make her a booty call so soon. you let the window of opportunity close on ya.... good measuring stick btw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pk1 Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Fill us in bub! How'd the call go? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
solbeam Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by magellanmax you shoulda called her on the same night you met her. preferably at around 3 am all drunk and mumbling. drunk dialing is the best. if she really was all into you, she wouldnt have minded you trying to make her a booty call so soon. you let the window of opportunity close on ya.... good measuring stick btw. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fearlesss Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 I tend to follow the 24 hr "rule" so today.The one thing I hate about meeting someone is when you exchange numbers and ended up waiting for the other one to call but do not b/c they waiting for you to call. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by magellanmax you shoulda called her on the same night you met her. preferably at around 3 am all drunk and mumbling. drunk dialing is the best. if she really was all into you, she wouldnt have minded you trying to make her a booty call so soon. you let the window of opportunity close on ya.... good measuring stick btw. That's exactly what i DID NOT want to do....pull off a swingers mistake But i just called her at 1:00pm. She didn't pick up, so i left a message.So i waited a day and a half...Let's hope all goes well~~~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
magellanmax Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gmccookny But i just called her at 1:00pm. She didn't pick up, so i left a message.So i waited a day and a half...Let's hope all goes well~~~ i'll bet you top $$ she was right there when you left the message. right about now, she and her friends are playing your message over and over trying to analyze your ass. you are officially under the glass buddy..... the evaluation board is scrutinizing your application. pray you didnt say anything sappy or deep....gonna cost you some brownie points Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by magellanmax i'll bet you top $$ she was right there when you left the message. right about now, she and her friends are playing your message over and over trying to analyze your ass. you are officially under the glass buddy..... the evaluation board is scrutinizing your application. pray you didnt say anything sappy or deep....gonna cost you some brownie points exactly NEVER ever EVER leave a message. no matter what kind. she´s not there? try another time or wait till she calls back (forget the "calls back" thing for most girls). if you leave a message she will OVERANALYSE and talk herself out of the whole thing, while when you´re talking to her LIVE, she has no time to think and overanalyse so much, but rather acts on what she feels right then and there, which will usually be in your favor when you play it right.these are BASIC mistakes you´re making here buddy. BABY steps man Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by magellanmax i'll bet you top $$ she was right there when you left the message. right about now, she and her friends are playing your message over and over trying to analyze your ass. you are officially under the glass buddy..... the evaluation board is scrutinizing your application. pray you didnt say anything sappy or deep....gonna cost you some brownie points :laugh: Damn, you must be gellan like magellanWell, if she's gonna be that analytical, i don't need it. I've been with a girl who was like that, and it made me crazy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by tastey these are BASIC mistakes you´re making here buddy. BABY steps man yeah, but if i call her 3X and don't leave a message, she'll see that on the phone and think im a stalker.Gimme a break guys. A girl gives you a #. you call her 2-3 days later. If she doesn't answer you leave a message. Whatever happens happens! Am i right girls?You 2 are looking too much into it, i think Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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