gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 I have a question. My bf says he likes my body and everything even though my boobs aren't the biggest(b's), but any girl he makes comments about or has pics of on his comp has C boobs and is like a size 2. (he LOVES jessica simpson) he tells me i don't need to lose weight. i weigh 125 so I'm far from a 2. So my question is, do you think he would be happier if I looked like those girls or is that just something ya'll gock at but would never really want. It just seems like the things he tells me are contradictory to the things he looks at. i know he loves me, but I want to be the most beautiful thing to him (even though I know there will always be hotter girls!!) should i kill myself trying to be a size 2 or does he even care? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Post a pic ... and your boobs are a perfect size and your weight is also fine, dont sweat it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 i don't have any full body pics. i'll try to get one Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 i don't have any full body pics. i'll try to get one a naked full body will do jusssst fine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 i mean, i think i look alright. i've always wanted to be skinnier (when i grad hs i weighed 107-it was great), but i was just coming to terms with the fact that this is how i look, but the girls he likes are PERFECT!!! so just thought i would get some other guys point of view cause of course he has to tell me he thinks i'm beautiful. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 sweetheart beautiful or perfect does not mean skinny with big tits. I know plenty of big titted skinny uglies. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 ...if he doesnt love you for who you are, than he doesnt love you - period...admiring physical beauty in the intangible such as actresses, singers, etc is correlated to fantasy and not reality...if he has half a brain, he knows this...both men and women do it - admiring and gawking at such images - most of them knowing it's prob a combination of airbrushing, plastic surgery, etc....he may not even make the connection you're making...'sides that point, i believe changing something physical about yourself should be for you not for them... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 how tall r u ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 he does love me for who i am, but it just seems to me that if thats what he admires, then deep down (even if he doesn't know it) thats what he would like for me to look like. i don't question his love, but i want to be his fantasy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 the girls every guy loves to drool over are perfect... its a fantasy and often times, its unrealistic to tell urself u have to be as "perfect" as u or he thinks they are.girls, especially celebrities, who appear to be flawless will always be gawked at and drooled over... but ur the real thing. whether u starve urself trying to be a size 00 or are a normal 125, he loves u for u. don't try to be something ur not, b/c i believe that men love to have fantasies about things they dont have and things they desire. that doesnt mean they actually want that. if he loves u for u, then u have nothing to worry about. and im not a guy, im just speakin how i feel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 phatman- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 i'm about 5'4" or 5'5" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ou812 Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Well lets look at this from an objective point of view. Lets say your man's weiner is of less than adequate size, however, he's still capable of keeping you happy in other ways. For this reason alone would it mean that you only find guys with small schlongs attractive?If you had porn on your PC would it all be of guys with 2 inch peckers, I'd say probably no. See what I'm saying? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 i'm about 5'4" or 5'5" well, everyone is right in wat they have said. like lina sed, i think we all fantasize about being with someone else or being somewhere else, but, if he truly loves u and wat he has, then he always comes back to his reality that he loves. he may like jessica simpson, but remember, ur sleeping with him, not jessica. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gfofaguy69 Posted April 9 Author Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by bullseye well, everyone is right in wat they have said. like lina sed, i think we all fantasize about being with someone else or being somewhere else, but, if he truly loves u and wat he has, then he always comes back to his reality that he loves. he may like jessica simpson, but remember, ur sleeping with him, not jessica. that makes me feel better. everything everybody is saying makes me feel better. the thing is is that I have pics of guys on my comp too, but I don't even compare them to him, which is prob what he does, but its hard for me to seperate it like that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bullseye Posted April 9 Report Share Posted April 9 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 that makes me feel better. everything everybody is saying makes me feel better. the thing is is that I have pics of guys on my comp too, but I don't even compare them to him, which is prob what he does, but its hard for me to seperate it like that. i save chick pics to on my computer, why??, i have no idea, except i see something i like and occasionally i like to look at it again. i have my fav girls, jus like u have ur fav guys. its normal. wat i think will always seperate the men from the women, is that, speakin for myself, everytime i see someone that im attracted to, im not thinkin, gee, wonder how good of a cook she is? no, im wonderin, gee, wonder how good she is in bed. guys jus cant get past their animalistic tendencies and desires, all the marriage, commitment, family stuff is there, jus buried real deep. and its not to say that u never, jus wanna get laid sometimes. we're jus different, and occasionally we allow those differences to subside long enuff so we can meet someone. ur lucky to be datin someone and to be in love, remember that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by gfofaguy69 i'm about 5'4" or 5'5" perfect !! :cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vex69 Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 post a pic;) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dirtyepic18 Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 while killing yourself to get down to that size 2 is defently overkill, you've basically asked the most rigged question in the book. You'll never look like jessica simpson (and your bf will never look like tom cruise), but putting in a little effort to look your best certainly isnt something he would complain about.just set small goals for yourself (goals smaller than looking like jessica simpson) and go for them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 i dont mean anything negative by saying this, but am i the only one who thinks this girl is a little insane!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
koky Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa i dont mean anything negative by saying this, but am i the only one who thinks this girl is a little insane!!!!!!!!!!!!! no comment ... thy shall not hate Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tranzwhore Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by fliptoniaaa i dont mean anything negative by saying this, but am i the only one who thinks this girl is a little insane!!!!!!!!!!!!! aren't we all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tired Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 Originally posted by gabo sweetheart beautiful or perfect does not mean skinny with big tits. I know plenty of big titted skinny uglies. so true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted April 10 Report Share Posted April 10 what the fuck are you people talking about?even when he loves her for herself and not her body, a better body would definately turn him on more. and he would DEFINATELY like it if she looked more like his fantasies.is anyone seriously gonna argue this? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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