lollie60 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 let's say there's a hot girl/guy you really want to be with ...but you're not sure how they feel and you don't want to look like an idiot in front of them so you keep your cool and tell them nothing about how you really feel. while you're lusting after this one another one comes by and this person is an easier of a catch .. so instead of risking rejection,humiliation and heartbreak of chasing after one you really want ...would you ever settle for the 'easier catch' ? I think guys do this more than girls ...no ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 sorry but i think it's a silly question, never settle seriously, the worst thing you can do in any area of your life is settle. generally anything worthwhile is not easy. would you want someone to settle for you???? i sure wouldn't. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missroxy Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 i think guys do it more. girls are more likely to carry on a relationship in their head before they go for the easier catch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 i think guys do it more. girls are more likely to carry on a relationship in their head before they go for the easier catch.i think guys probably settle more when it comes to sex, but i dunno about the carrying on a relationship in their head thing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollie60 Posted July 12 Author Report Share Posted July 12 What I meant was do you want the hot dangerous one that you really want but might hurt you or the nice safe one that won't hurt you ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missroxy Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 well you know how you find those crazy girls who like like a guy, and then like obsess over them and fantasize that they will one day be with them. like they see a girl talking to him and get all "who does girlfriend think she is pushin up on my man?" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tc55 Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 let's say there's a hot girl/guy you really want to be with ...but you're not sure how they feel and you don't want to look like an idiot in front of them so you keep your cool and tell them nothing about how you really feel. while you're lusting after this one another one comes by and this person is an easier of a catch .. so instead of risking rejection,humiliation and heartbreak of chasing after one you really want ...would you ever settle for the 'easier catch' ? I think guys do this more than girls ...no ?[/QUIIf you want something go get it. What is the worst thing that can happen? They say no. Big deal. It's never that your not good enough for them. If they say no you are not their preference. You shouldn't take that personal. There is no such thing as an easier catch. There are just preferences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iamsamurai Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 I've NEVER settled for anything less than what I wanted, if I want sex i'll hit it up but won't get committed to it, i'll go after what I want til I get it or she says no.Ass is ass but true feelings are more, can't compromise on that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
candylicious Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 let's say there's a hot girl/guy you really want to be with ...but you're not sure how they feel and you don't want to look like an idiot in front of them so you keep your cool and tell them nothing about how you really feel. while you're lusting after this one another one comes by and this person is an easier of a catch .. so instead of risking rejection,humiliation and heartbreak of chasing after one you really want ...would you ever settle for the 'easier catch' ? I think guys do this more than girls ...no ?I have bin in your situation and I went for the easier catch. The thing was the guy that I really like so happened to like me but shy to say anything...To make a long story short the easier guy ruined it for me and the guy I really liked. After the guy i really like found out I was dating someone he went and found his now wife. And the easier guy and I broke up 5 months after we started dating. I kick myself everytime I should have waited for the one I really liked. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
georgym Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 What I meant was do you want the hot dangerous one that you really want but might hurt you or the nice safe one that won't hurt you ?the latterim trying to go out with this girl now for a week, and she's SOO hot, but Sooo flakey.I've given her 2 chances already. Im done. If she can't meet me halfway (despite her exotic looks) i will move on to someone else.And who's to say that someone else is down a level Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fliptoniaaa Posted July 12 Report Share Posted July 12 sorry but i think it's a silly question, never settle seriously, the worst thing you can do in any area of your life is settle. generally anything worthwhile is not easy. would you want someone to settle for you???? i sure wouldn't.spoken like a true disciple!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gio660 Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 guys always settle more often but only to get some.. never settle, never wonder what could have been... it is always easier to find someone that could be rather than the one that should be... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ DADDY DRE Posted July 13 Report Share Posted July 13 My advice is... Try this a few times and see what happens...Invite them both to a club and reserve a table....Pick them up in a nice car or SUV, Dress fashionably and always smell good.Set up situations where it appears you're the life of the party wherever you go!Have the cellphone ringing off like a hot box & make it appear like youhave lots of cool friends even if you're not so popular.Then see who's most eager to dance with you.Make sure your so confident and so cool... that she (the better of the two) would almost be a fool not to go out with you at least once!Once you get your game up like me you can have them both at once... Get back to me and let me know what happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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