kahn Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 Yes, but "be yourself" is so vague, and I don't think that he ever asked whether he should "act like someone else" or "be himself"... I just get frustrated when people have told me to "be myself" because really, be yourself is kind of meaningless advice. Ok, so I shouldn't do my Arnold Schwartzenegger impression the whole time. No shit. I think he's asking for more specific advice, like, "is the second date too soon for romance" or "what kind of restaurants are good for second dates". Obviously he has to roll with the feel of the night and turn up the romance if the situation calls for it, but he's just looking for general advice, i.e., the Industry Standard on dating.It took me a lot of figuring out on my own through trial and a lot of error before piecing this stuff together, and I still am no expert... But "be yourself" is not really very specific advice. Also, I know that when I was starting out "being myself" meant telling girls everything about "myself" because I'm the type that tends to spill everything about myself right off the bat... I had to learn the hard way that you have to pace yourself and not appear so interested right from the start, otherwise you scare them away. I'm still being myself, I just reveal myself at a slower pace than I normally would. Is that still "being yourself?"you should concentrate on my first statement............don't overthink it.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbbooom Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 go with whatever comes naturally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 duh...buy some good food and some good wine and cook together at your place. much more fun, much more romantic.uh, dunno bout that one, bling's mom and sis may kinda kill the mood!!!!! def too soon to make her 'part of the family'!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 uh, dunno bout that one, bling's mom and sis may kinda kill the mood!!!!! def too soon to make her 'part of the family'!!!!! buy them two movie tickets and send them out. or make it her place!cooking together is the thing man... lots of fun and it´s not something she does always. much cheaper too... i´ve never in my life taken a girl to a restaurant that i´m not fucking. this shit is rewards. what are you rewarding her for? being nice to you? man, you got the goods here. you don´t need to impress. you´re mr.nice guy. you won´t lie to her and you won´t play her like the other guys out there. that alone is worth a lot to women. you´re the PRIZE man. keep that in mind! now relax and just have fun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 28 Report Share Posted July 28 i´ve never in my life taken a girl to a restaurant that i´m not fucking. this shit is rewards. you´re the PRIZE man. keep that in mind! biggest load of bullshit i ever heard! and ur a lousy date! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bling Posted July 28 Author Report Share Posted July 28 thanks everone for the awesome comments Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastey Posted July 29 Report Share Posted July 29 biggest load of bullshit i ever heard! and ur a lousy date! lmao @ i´m a lousy date... do you really need a fancy restaurant to have fun and feel sexy? if you do i really feel sorry for you it´s not about money either. if i buy wine and things to cook i usually spend a lot more then i´d spend in a good restaurant. with cooking i don´t mean spaghetti carbonara n shit... even though that seems to be your image of cooking together for which again, i feel sorry for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stogiey2k2 Posted July 29 Report Share Posted July 29 Bling I agree with Mattas, take her to eat sushi, I'd recommend Doraku on lincoln rd. its a block away from the theatre,the prices are not bad, the sushi is great and the atmosphere is very coolit has a tea house setting, then from there you can take to catch a flick right down the block, just my two cents... peace................... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondboheme Posted July 29 Report Share Posted July 29 lmao @ i´m a lousy date... do you really need a fancy restaurant to have fun and feel sexy? if you do i really feel sorry for you it´s not about money either. if i buy wine and things to cook i usually spend a lot more then i´d spend in a good restaurant. with cooking i don´t mean spaghetti carbonara n shit... even though that seems to be your image of cooking together for which again, i feel sorry for you um, er, GO BLINGALICIOUS!!!!!!btw, can't tell you where to take her for dinner silly! it totally depends on the type of person she is! i would prefer a dive over a fancy restaurant for the first date but you see, that's just me, she might be offended by such a place!!!once again Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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