dgmodel Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 ...anyone~!? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i actually have had this convo with a girl i've been trying to get with for a while...she says yes age is what defines a man cause the older you are the more experiences (life and sexual you have) and i disagree cause im not as old as she would like but i bet i have done more than she thinks and im "defined" cause of my experiences...but she doesnt want to hear it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i actually have had this convo with a girl i've been trying to get with for a while...she says yes age is what defines a man cause the older you are the more experiences (life and sexual you have) and i disagree cause im not as old as she would like but i bet i have done more than she thinks and im "defined" cause of my experiences...but she doesnt want to hear it...id go with experienceage is but a number Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 id go with experienceage is but a numberi agree...im 28 and she says when im 30 it will be better...she is 34...but she thinks im too young...but 30 is ok...lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 dont think about.... all those things you fear........just be glad to be here..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 that is pretty dumb...does she know you are a recovering crack head? i'm sure you have plenty of great stories you could tell her if she wants to hear about experiences Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest onisakura Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Age means nothing....though one HOPES that as you get older you have learned a few things along the way. It also depends on what you are looking at. Sexually sometimes kids these days way outrun a slightly older generation. Experimentation with drugs: the kids definitely have this one. I was talking to a gf of mine thats 22 and the stories she's told me about doing coke at school when she was 16 and shit just blew me away. Drinking at 13, smoking pot at 14. WTF?!?! Makes me look like a fuckin prude. Maturity....thats the real ambiguous one. How do you define it? Everyone has their own version of their standard of maturity. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 she knows some of my "party" stories... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest onisakura Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 i agree...im 28 and she says when im 30 it will be better...she is 34...but she thinks im too young...but 30 is ok...lolShe has the mentality of a teenager saying that shit right there. "I only date 21 year olds, they are so much more mature than guys my age." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 Age means nothing....though one HOPES that as you get older you have learned a few things along the way. It also depends on what you are looking at. Sexually sometimes kids these days way outrun a slightly older generation. Experimentation with drugs: the kids definitely have this one. I was talking to a gf of mine thats 22 and the stories she's told me about doing coke at school when she was 16 and shit just blew me away. Drinking at 13, smoking pot at 14. WTF?!?! Makes me look like a fuckin prude. Maturity....thats the real ambiguous one. How do you define it? Everyone has their own version of their standard of maturity.i smoked pot before 14 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 6 Report Share Posted July 6 anyone who post on this site is DEF not mature Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nomembername Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 i smoked pot before 14yeah but you grew up in the ghetto and was probably slinging crack at age 12 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 yeah but you grew up in the ghetto and was probably slinging crack at age 12 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Felix_Leiter Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 yeah but you grew up in the ghetto and was probably slinging crack at age 12racist Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crowina Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 i went out with a man 11 years older then me, 9 years older then me and they acted like they were younger then me... i think what defines a man is his independence, respect, modesty, charm, among many other things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladonna0276 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 i agree...im 28 and she says when im 30 it will be better...she is 34...but she thinks im too young...but 30 is ok...lol i understand what she's saying. she's just having a hard time explaining herself. all she is saying is that each year, a person matures a little bit more. i'm 30, and two years ago may not seem like a lot of time, but i am a completely different person from when i was 28. sorry, but it's true. this woman is 34, and she's probably thinking about settling down and maybe even having children. she may be saying you're too young because you're probably not ready for that. umm...just a guess. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 i understand what she's saying. she's just having a hard time explaining herself. all she is saying is that each year, a person matures a little bit more. i'm 30, and two years ago may not seem like a lot of time, but i am a completely different person from when i was 28. sorry, but it's true. this woman is 34, and she's probably thinking about settling down and maybe even having children. she may be saying you're too young because you're probably not ready for that. umm...just a guess.well she used to be married and she has 2 kids already... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladonna0276 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 Age means nothing....though one HOPES that as you get older you have learned a few things along the way. It also depends on what you are looking at. Sexually sometimes kids these days way outrun a slightly older generation. Experimentation with drugs: the kids definitely have this one. I was talking to a gf of mine thats 22 and the stories she's told me about doing coke at school when she was 16 and shit just blew me away. Drinking at 13, smoking pot at 14. WTF?!?! Makes me look like a fuckin prude. Maturity....thats the real ambiguous one. How do you define it? Everyone has their own version of their standard of maturity.what do experiences with drugs have to do with maturity? i'm just curious because that makes absolutely no sense. i think maturity has to do with how responsible a person is, being grounded, emotionally stable, and more accepting of change. a mature person sees his/her goals and is motivated enough to achieve them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
belladonna0276 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 well she used to be married and she has 2 kids already...then, she is probably looking for a guy who will be there for her and her kids. i can understand why she would have reservations about your age. i'm sure you're a great guy, but she is just being careful. you can't blame her. she doesn't sound like a stupid woman. she's just scared that you're not going to be there for the long haul. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fkornre Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 then, she is probably looking for a guy who will be there for her and her kids. i can understand why she would have reservations about your age. i'm sure you're a great guy, but she is just being careful. you can't blame her. she doesn't sound like a stupid woman. she's just scared that you're not going to be there for the long haul.yea...your probably right... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 what do experiences with drugs have to do with maturity? i'm just curious because that makes absolutely no sense. i think maturity has to do with how responsible a person is, being grounded, emotionally stable, and more accepting of change. a mature person sees his/her goals and is motivated enough to achieve them.She never said they did. She was just commenting on life experiences and how kids today are doing certain things at a younger age than some of us might have. However if you want to get technical, it takes a relatively mature individual to be able to balance those kind of activities and being able to handle all of your important responsibilities in life... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest onisakura Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 She never said they did. She was just commenting on life experiences and how kids today are doing certain things at a younger age than some of us might have. However if you want to get technical, it takes a relatively mature individual to be able to balance those kind of activities and being able to handle all of your important responsibilities in life...Thank you. I couldn't have explained myself better if i had done it myself. *lol* No wonder we get along so well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 Thank you. I couldn't have explained myself better if i had done it myself. *lol* No wonder we get along so well! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
howienewport Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 It depends on whether or not the "MAN" in question is banging a hot asian chick. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kfitz73 Posted July 7 Report Share Posted July 7 It depends on whether or not the "MAN" in question is banging a hot asian chick.Well that goes without saying.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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