cmb1975 Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 OK So here is the scoop...I am totally in love with my boyfriend. I discovered this while he was away from me for a while. And at first I thought it was because of that...you know we always want what we cant have...but its not. He is what I think of when I wake up and what I dream of at night, I love being around him, I love the way he smells, his laugh, his smile...I get all giddy when I know I am gonna see him...But I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I am afraid that he may not have the same feelings yet, that this may be too soon...So my question is, when do you tell the other person? I mean someone has to be first right? How do you know when its right and how do you do it?------------------The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 I think you should tell him that you love him as soon as you know that you really do. Why wait any longer? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 I for one can understand why you don't want to. If you want to take a pessimist's advice, do it in baby steps. Maybe you can start off by telling him how amazingly happy you are to have gotten back together with him. Use his reaction as a cue for how far to go with it. Fortunately I've always been told I love you and never had to say it first! The one time I felt it and didn't say it- well, afterwards I was glad I didn't say anything. But in your situation I wouldn't be surprised if he feels the same way. I mean you guys were split up for a while, why else would you have gotten back together?Oh, and this is the sweetest thing I have heard in a long time- I'm so happy for you! ------------------ Let me take you on a journey into bliss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest xfactor834 Posted May 15 Report Share Posted May 15 Be true to yourself. And be true to him Claire.If you love him...and you're sure you love him, you don't necessarily have to say it immediately.Act like you love him, and he should get the point in a few weeks or so. If not, tell him.If he doesn't love you back, then it's his loss.------------------ Don't fly too high on borrowed wings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torontotrance Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 I say tell him straight out. I'm the kinda person who will tell you straight out, I cut to the chase, I hate B.S. Anyways I always felt Honesty is the best way to go with things in terms of boyfriend and girlfriend cause they respect you more with your feeling and also their is no point to keep this inside cause you will explode and stress yourself trying to keep it inside. Be upfront, that is the best way in my opinion------------------"No Sound System Is Safe"-Leftfield Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 A.S.A.P I dont want to go into the sad sad story of someone that never got to say I LOVE YOU. ------------------ *How many licks does it take?* *Shake it baby, Shake it!* AiM: XxXccess(*SHAGFEST 2001* Cumming soon!) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djmoonshine Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 clairebear... someones said this i think, but ill reiterate... start slow... say it in everything but the words.. i love you...let your actions speak... words are words... anyone can say i love you, but showing that.. now thats a different story... you guys are beautiful!!!! ------------------ life's a ride... pack light...AIM: dELERiUM 540 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 I think I'm gonna cry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 Damn I wrote this whole long think and it didn't post! Claire IM me I'll tell you...blondie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harley1 Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 Originally posted by cmb1975:OK So here is the scoop...I am totally in love with my boyfriend. I discovered this while he was away from me for a while. And at first I thought it was because of that...you know we always want what we cant have...but its not. He is what I think of when I wake up and what I dream of at night, I love being around him, I love the way he smells, his laugh, his smile...I get all giddy when I know I am gonna see him...But I'm afraid to tell him how I feel. I am afraid that he may not have the same feelings yet, that this may be too soon...So my question is, when do you tell the other person? I mean someone has to be first right? How do you know when its right and how do you do it?If you are afraid to tell him, then you probably shouldn't. That should give you the message that the realtionship is not ready yet. I don't know you or your relationship but in my experience if you are afraid to come out with it for whatever reason, you guys aren't at that true level yet. Wait and see how it plays out. Maybe play it over in your mind a bit to see if you are really in love. That should either get rid of the fear or add to it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
starcapone Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 love is so difficult...well, i'm in the same position you are in and i also don't know what to do. a part of me wants to tell him i love him, actually he knows!! i never said to him - i love you - but by the way i act and respond to certain things, i'm pretty sure that he knows how i feel. you guys have been together for awhile, so i suggest that u let him know how u feel. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
navid73 Posted May 16 Report Share Posted May 16 Originally posted by starcapone:love is so difficult...well, i'm in the same position you are in and i also don't know what to do. a part of me wants to tell him i love him, actually he knows!! i never said to him - i love you - but by the way i act and respond to certain things, i'm pretty sure that he knows how i feel. you guys have been together for awhile, so i suggest that u let him know how u feel. star i thought u were down cuz you were single? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
torontotrance Posted May 17 Report Share Posted May 17 don't cry mr.dick------------------"No Sound System Is Safe"-Leftfield Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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