luz Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 What do you guys think?I am always with my BFwe hang out togetherwe go party togetherwe live together we never get tired of eachotherand we always have a great timewhy cant my friends just be happy for me?i still include them when we hang..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bre5379 Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 I don't know about that one. Maybe they just want to hang out with you alone sometimes. Did you ask them??Breann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 My bf and I are the same way except for the living together part . . . for now anyway. . . .your friends could be jealous that you're in the kind of wonderful, heathly relationship that most people wish they could have . . .orthey miss you . .. because they never get time *alone* with you . . . even to stop by and chat for awhile, your bf is always there - try to go out w/ just the girls . . .my friends acted the same way - my best guy friend was happy for me that i found the l.o.ml. but disliked him (even before meeting rob) b/c he missed me. orthey might not think your bf is good for you . . . they're jsut showing concern if thats the case.Just stay happy - your friends will come around sooner or later . . .luv,brandie ------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."**NEW EMAIL!!**brandie@powerpuff.comorloves2cox@netscape.netAIM: loves2cox Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hojo53 Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 I'm having a similar problem on the flip side. My friend who I've been friend with since freshman year of college recently got a new girlfriend (4 months ago) Since then he spends just about every moment with her and is moving in with her this weekend. We hardly hang out at all since he's been with her. I seriously think she is trying to make him grow up to fast since she is 27 and he is 25. He always sayd "Come hang out with us" When I don't wanna fucking hang out with his girl too!!!!! He went from going to the clubs to not doing anything at all, just bars now and then.------------------No RegretsNo club is to crazy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ezdreamer Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 Originally posted by luz:What do you guys think?I am always with my BFwe hang out togetherwe go party togetherwe live together we never get tired of eachotherand we always have a great timewhy cant my friends just be happy for me?i still include them when we hang.....Give it enough time... you'll get sick of it sooner or later or he will. Survey says that spending a little time apart is good for ya. Besides how you gonna miss him when he's practically your siamese twin...------------------Dream a little dream... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trancedkitten Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 I know what you mean...same here. I always invite my friends to go out with us but it's not good enough. I guess it's because they don't have a boyfriend and/or they are jealous because they think you are going to forget about them. If they are your true friends they should be happy for you & if they can't see that then it's their loss. My boyfriend is my best friend and that's good enough for me....-=*TrancEdkittEn*=------------------- ::::::Trancin' Is a Way Of Life:::::: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted September 27 Report Share Posted September 27 My boyfriend is my best friend. We do everything together except live together. However, I always try to make time for my family and other girlfriends.BlueAngel------------------"Every generation laughs at the old fashions, but follows religiously the new." - Henry David Thoreau Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luz Posted September 27 Author Report Share Posted September 27 Originally posted by hojo53:I'm having a similar problem on the flip side. My friend who I've been friend with since freshman year of college recently got a new girlfriend (4 months ago) Since then he spends just about every moment with her and is moving in with her this weekend. We hardly hang out at all since he's been with her. I seriously think she is trying to make him grow up to fast since she is 27 and he is 25. He always sayd "Come hang out with us" When I don't wanna fucking hang out with his girl too!!!!! He went from going to the clubs to not doing anything at all, just bars now and then.I tell him all the time to hang out w/ his boys w/ out mebut he doesnt want toall his boys love hanging out w/ memaybe you should give her a chance Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luz Posted September 27 Author Report Share Posted September 27 Originally posted by blueangel:My boyfriend is my best friend. We do everything together except live together. However, I always try to make time for my family and other girlfriends.BlueAngelI still make time for them.just not club timeThey are single and looking to hook upi dont need to go along for that, and then end up chillin alone when they do hook up.We have all been friends for a long timeand they have all been on serious lock down in the past.They seem to forget things like that!I on the other hand am not on lock downI am in LOVE!!!! thanks everyone for your response! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyo Posted September 28 Report Share Posted September 28 Originally posted by hojo53:I'm having a similar problem on the flip side. My friend who I've been friend with since freshman year of college recently got a new girlfriend (4 months ago) Since then he spends just about every moment with her and is moving in with her this weekend. We hardly hang out at all since he's been with her. I seriously think she is trying to make him grow up to fast since she is 27 and he is 25. He always sayd "Come hang out with us" When I don't wanna fucking hang out with his girl too!!!!! He went from going to the clubs to not doing anything at all, just bars now and then.I think that is how one of my b/f's friends was feeling initially. Like I stole him away. I felt like he didn't like me because of it. That is until we all hung out together for a weekend. The next week he told my boyfriend he should marry me!!Maybe you should give her a chance. And not to sound bitchy but be happy for him even if you think it's wrong. I've had friends who have dated guys I hated but I kept my mouth shut. If you don't you might lose a friend!------------------ A mind that is stretched by a new experience can never go back to it's old dimensions. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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