sarahb Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I don't. I am 22, and I have been through some major relationships...but I don't (and don't think I ever will) understand boys, or their intentions. Anyone feel the same way?I am ready to say screw it and switch teams... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gravity Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by sarahb:I am ready to say screw it and switch teams...Can I be the coach?------------------"The world is a better place because of those who refuse to believe they can't fly." nycedee was and always will be my bitch ...and he'll never forget that...Everyone else, please be real to yourselves before you try to tell others what is right and wrong...and please, please chill the fuck out with the hypocrisy...that kind of behavior makes us "racists" look like Ghandi (no Hindu-bashing implied)...unless you are my bitch nycedee and believe that free thinking=racism...because that makes the most sense of all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sugar_n_spice Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by sarahb:I am ready to say screw it and switch teams...hehe!! thats what i recommend!! ------------------" Music is a universal language. Where speech fails, then music begins. It is the natural medium for the expression of our emotions - the art that expresses in tones our feelings which are too strong & too deep to be expressed in words"Charles W. Landon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmb1975 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 funny, i was thinking the same thing recently!!! however, i know plenty of women who essentially are just like men!------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb Posted February 20 Author Report Share Posted February 20 I know I know, but I think I'd have to be a switch hitter, in which case, I STILL HAVE TO DEAL WITH THE GOD DAMN BOYS!!! It's like a no-win situation. You want penis, you get problems. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rachel1997 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I do... Need some advice?I'm Dr. Judy.... lol------------------ "I OWN DJ Mike D'R. NOW" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by gravity: Can I be the coach?And what will you be coaching her on? Seriously though, I haven't been in any major relationships in my life yet. I do get bummed out about boyz once in awhile but you can't let that run your life. I'm telling ya, when you are not looking you are going to get knocked over by the man of your dreams. I just haven't step off of the curb yet to allow that to happen to me yet . -Jamms------------------GLI ABBRACCI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
keshiki Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 boys blow goats!------------------B L O W G O A T S !!!!Coming Soon.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tyco Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I hear ya.......a bit one sided though.......are we assuming females are any better?? If you've never been with a female and haven't seen our side of it, how can you assume they're any different?? I speak for myself and my experiences.......to me this is stereotyping at its worst......Mikey------------------"Some I consider my girlfriends, and some I just consider" - John Bender Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb53 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I know A LOT of really Crazy women. (Not in a good way) Much worse than many guys I have ever met. ------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
christyne13 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Hell no! ...Don't switch sides. Gurlz can be worse!Your'e 22 and have plenty of time to find, develop yourself and the rest will come. [This message has been edited by christyne13 (edited 02-20-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uknj Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by tyco:I hear ya.......a bit one sided though.......are we assuming females are any better?? If you've never been with a female and haven't seen our side of it, how can you assume they're any different?? I speak for myself and my experiences.......to me this is stereotyping at its worst......Mikeyit goes both ways for sure.....i don't think either sex will ever have a complete understanding of the other.....you learn more as you get older, though, and what you want from a relationship begins to change. i don't think it's fair to make the statement "i hate men" or "i hate women".....but it may be fair to say that "some men are jerks" or "some women are jerks"....or whatever. life would be boring if we could totally understand each other - we just all need to learn from the assholes that come into our lives and avoid those types like the plague! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cubano43 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Well Sungoddess and I will be holding seminar soon regarding this topic. What makes us expert is that we both have been through long relationships. So we could tell you how to avoid the pitfalls. The 1st is trying to understand each other. Don't even try. Hasn't been done in a billion years and it's not going to be done now. Are you trying to understand men or change them?------------------Hey sugar mama come and dance with me, the smartest thing you ever did was take a chance on me!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 The best way to understand boys/men is to go simplicity. When they say "nothing" 9 out of 10 times it really is nothing. Us, women/girls tend to think too complex sometimes and try to look deeper than we need to. Go simple and you'll realize it takes so little to understand them.BlueAngel------------------“Once in a while, in the middle of this thing called life, love throws us a fairy tale.” - Unkown Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
resident Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 What's there not to understand? At least we guys have this advantage: ONE mood, ALL the time! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest reginap Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by keshiki:boys blow goats!agreed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by resident:What's there not to understand? At least we guys have this advantage: ONE mood, ALL the time! That is soooo untrue. I used to think that a ways back, but me having a large amount of male friends...Men go through mood swings too!-Jamms ------------------GLI ABBRACCI Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb53 Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by blueangel:The best way to understand boys/men is to go simplicity. When they say "nothing" 9 out of 10 times it really is nothing. Us, women/girls tend to think too complex sometimes and try to look deeper than we need to. Go simple and you'll realize it takes so little to understand them.BlueAngelSome true words of wisdom!------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuteboobie Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 girls...i know exactly what ur talking about...after the last few weeks i had, me and my roommate decided this weekend that its just way too bothersome...so we r learning to masturbate.....hahaha------------------never frown....u dont know when someone is falling in love with ur smile...the most you can do for a friend is simply be a friend... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb Posted February 20 Author Report Share Posted February 20 Everyone here has such good advice, but there is one thing I just can't deal with--Guys play games. It may not be intentional, and for the most part, the game is what lures us (women) in. And we play our own games too, don't get me wrong. But to continue playing the game after we've folded our poker hand is where I lose understanding. Like when a guy sporadically calls you, once in a blue moon, but shows interest in you when he does make the effort. (Can you tell this is a personal experience yet?!) I mean, if you're interested, SHOW SOME FUCKING INTEREST THAT IS NOT SPORADIC! And if you're not interested, TELL ME! I am an adult and I can deal with that, but I can't deal with thinking about the situation all the time, then getting over you (from not ever hearing from you) and then just when I get over it, you call me!!! It's crap, right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mysteriousss Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I totally understand how a male mind works.. It's not that hard to figure out.. Although sometimes they are just plain stupid and then nobody can figure them out Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
resident Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by jammy:Men go through mood swings too!Well, true. I think that I have PMS about three-four times a month!Hey, I admit it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueangel Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 Originally posted by sarahb:I am an adult and I can deal with that, but I can't deal with thinking about the situation all the time, then getting over you (from not ever hearing from you) and then just when I get over it, you call me!!! It's crap, right?That's when you need to be adult enough to call it quits. And after you've forgotten about him and then all of a sudden he calls again . . .just tell him not to bother that it's not worth your time. That's all.People are only important when you "MAKE" them important.BlueAngel------------------“Once in a while, in the middle of this thing called life, love throws us a fairy tale.” - Unkown Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sarahb Posted February 20 Author Report Share Posted February 20 I don't expect to ever understand men. I don't even WANT to understand men. I just want some sort of mutual respect. The game is getting so old and boring. Guys, if you like a girl, pay attention to her. I'm not talking roses and dinner kind of thing, but mental interest. When you call her, sound interested--ask her questions, like how's work? Or, how did that project go you were working on? Or, how was your girls birthday the other night? Things to show her you listen, even if you don't give two shits. And if you're other line clicks in, don't leave her on hold for 5 minutes. And if you don't like her, tell her, or at least make the hints OBVIOUS that you are calling her strictly as friends. I like a mysterious boy, I like a bad boy. I don't like an immature boy who doesn't yet know how to express feelings without having to come straight out and say "I like you" or "I'm not diggin you"Girls, do you know what I mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jammy Posted February 20 Report Share Posted February 20 I do try to keep relationships with guys simple, really I do ...I agree with sarah about being an adult and everything. I mean why not keep it simple stupid (sorry regression to high school days), but thats me...It either you are interested or not. I don't like playing games, nor like games being played on me. I guess I am way too mature for my age to deal with guys that can't get their emotions straight. But alas I still deal with 'em unfortunately...-Jamms "someonepassmeapacifier"------------------GLI ABBRACCI [This message has been edited by jammy (edited 02-20-2001).] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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