midiman Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 I was just wondering how many of you out there go to clubs like Twilo or Vinyl alone. I do it sometimes and have no problem enjoying myself. I have friends but it can be tough convincing people to go to a club until 10 in the morning which is the way I like to do it. It looks like I may be doing it again this Friday at Twilo (or Vinyl) seeing how a bunch of my friends are going to be out of town. Oh well, this boy has got to dance.------------------------------------------I'm a slut...I make love to music every night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cuteboobie Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 there have been a couple of times where i have gone to sf all by myself....i would go at like 4 and stay for a few hours just have fun cause my friends were busy or not in the mood or whatever...but then again, i have my corner and i always have a few friends there....the only time i am actually alone is waiting on the line, but hey whatever...fun is fun and alone can be fun too------------------never frown....u dont know when someone is falling in love with ur smile...the most you can do for a friend is simply be a friend... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
powerpuff Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 i totally hear ya on this one...most of my friends i go to clubs with i lose half way through the night or they are not into the real late night scene and fade quickly so i always end up meeting new faces to hang out with cause i love to dance. so if i have to go it alone so be it....it's better than staying home plus we always meet new friends...maybe you and i will meet up next time...i was thinking the same as you for this weekend.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
entrepreneur Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 there was a smiliar thread about clubbing alone and there were like 70 replies. my guess is there are many people who have clubbed alone. so don't be discouraged. whatever your reason is, going to club alone is better than staying home alone and masterbate the night away. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rparadox Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 I go alone all the time. I moved up to CT from Philly, so all of my friends are back there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 No,I'm just too uncomfortable too.I spend a lot of time alone though..and people mispercieve that as being anti-social..perhaps I am...but I just love being by myself often.------------------Sassa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
foxyroxy20 Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 If gone alone to exit about 4 times, it was fun, yeah u feel funny at the beginning, but then its okay u meet ppl to have fun with and enjoy the music, what feels awkward is the first moment u get on the dance floor and start dancing by urself, but its all goodBut i think i would only feel comfortable alone in exit, no other club..------------------aim: amafrk1amafrk1@yahoo.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neojunglist Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 i have gone to exit, sf, studio 6 and bermuda all by myself. i could careless who i go with cause the ppl i go with i usually split from when we get there and then we meet up again when it is time to go home. i have fun with everyone and when i am there i know most ppl or make friends fast. ------------------"Dude, Where's my car?"p*l*u*r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midiman Posted February 22 Author Report Share Posted February 22 I didn't post this topic to gain approval that going solo is alright. I feel very comfortable in doing it when I need to. I was just wondering how many of the people I see in a club are there by themselves. I would have a lot of respect for someone being so down with it that they are comfortable doing that.I actually like the feeling of being in a club and looking around and seeing a sea of brand new faces losing their shit with me. I think that is one of the things that makes this scene and clubbing today so great. You do not need a partner to dance with (even during slower songs). Everyone is dancing together and feeding of each others' vibe.It would be nice though to meet a girl one of these days who I could rage with. Most girls I meet outside of clubland just aren't down with the music enough. Meeting a clubland cutie would definitely be perfect. Maybe this weekend?------------------------------------------I'm a slut...I make love to music every night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neojunglist Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 Originally posted by midiman:I didn't post this topic to gain approval that going solo is alright. I feel very comfortable in doing it when I need to. I was just wondering how many of the people I see in a club are there by themselves. I would have a lot of respect for someone being so down with it that they are comfortable doing that.I actually like the feeling of being in a club and looking around and seeing a sea of brand new faces losing their shit with me. I think that is one of the things that makes this scene and clubbing today so great. You do not need a partner to dance with (even during slower songs). Everyone is dancing together and feeding of each others' vibe.It would be nice though to meet a girl one of these days who I could rage with. Most girls I meet outside of clubland just aren't down with the music enough. Meeting a clubland cutie would definitely be perfect. Maybe this weekend?definately feelin ya bro. ------------------"Dude, Where's my car?"p*l*u*r Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeydollaz Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 i've definetly rolled into clubs solo ... only a few times none of mt ppl were there, but i just chilled with bartenders or whoever i can talk to anyone ... ------------------Your ad here !contact joeydollaz@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LikmyLipz Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 yup yup.. i go to twilo fridays all the time alone.. ------------------ ~LiPz~ aim:LikmyLipze-mail:LikmyLipz@aol.com />http://hometown.aol.com/lipzlipzlipz/LIPZ.html Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
djamnfx Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 I'm not from the Big Apple, but over here in Chicago, I tend to do a LOT of clubbing alone. My close pals are all into that "I'm too old/tired/broke" phase of their lives to go out and dance, so I hit places I know by my lonesome.The cool part is that I find myself more open and free to socialize with total strangers when I am alone. At Crobar Nightclub, I actually ended up building a small bonding with the regulars that go there. We never see each other anywhere else but there on Saturday nights.D-Jam<A HREF="/cgi-bin/redir.cgi?url=http://www.osmag.com" TARGET=_blank> </A> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
schwingep Posted February 22 Report Share Posted February 22 plenty of times, I just need good music and a dance floor and a chair...you get to meet tons of crazy people from all over...I can always count on a good time- Pete ------------------------------------------ Upcoming Shows: ???My new web site...Version 1.04a[url]http://www.naked-edge.com/schwinge.html DJSchwinge@naked-edge.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jennEfer Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 I don't think I could ever go to a club alone. I am usually able to find one other person to go with. The problem is I live about 45 minutes away from the city and wouldnt want to make the trip by myself. I do wish that I knew more people up by me who love the stuff as much as I do!! I am also looking for a clubbing cutie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nyc420 Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 I've hit up clubs solo before. None of my boys are into the music or the scene like I am. And I fucking love to dance...so I'm going out. I think going alone is great because you're almost forced to be social and meet new people. And you have no one but yourself to worry about. ------------------"Up all night...sleep all day."AIM - E123NYC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nickijay Posted February 23 Report Share Posted February 23 i'm going solo to twilo tomorrow...not a biggie cuz i'll know a bunch of people. i usually end up wandering around by myself when i go with people anyway......not a biggie!------------------ Boink like a bunny with spring fever!!!uknj@aol.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
midiman Posted February 23 Author Report Share Posted February 23 I must say that I usually don't meet that many people when i go to Twilo. Maybe I am not socially aggressive enough but that's usually because I am only the dancefloor doing my dancing thing. I would definiely like to meet some more party people though. I think I will make more of an effort to talk to people tomorrow. oooooh....tomorrow, I like the sound of that. Can't wait.------------------------------------------I'm a slut...I make love to music every night Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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