bodyguard Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 I'm a lifelong New Yorker but cant figure this out. There MUST be a subculture for married people that want to have discreet sex on the side. D/D free, not freaky stuff. Just affairs. Any ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crossymaster Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 Get a divorce/annulment. If you're looking to have an affair, then you're obviously not happy. Perhaps you could mention the idea of a 3some or group sex to your wife. If that's no good, fly to vegas or amsterdam and fuck a hooker legally.Perhaps you should've thought of these things before you went and trapped yourself for the rest of you life. "I do" is forever, haha. I'm sorry, too many of my freinds are getting married right now and I know in a few months they'll probably regret it for the rest of their lives so it's a touchy subject. ------------------ BAC If a man does not keep pace with his companions, perhaps it is because he hears a different drummer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bodyguard Posted June 29 Author Report Share Posted June 29 That is one (two) choices. However, lots of people are doing this. SO, without passing any judgement on me or anyone, I'm still curious. They can't ALL happen by accident. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lecy337 Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 WEll,I dont think Crossy was knocking you.. he was just sharing his thoughts.. I agree with him, but I feel for you...try to spice you sex life up.. are you not into freaky things? what do you concider freaky? I know some couples meet other couples and do the group sharring thing.. personaly that would freak me out.. but it's gotta be mutual.. no for the affair thing.. no matter what you're taking a chace.. or putting yourself at great risk.. for loss of marriege..or VD's... death... I'm not sure of anyway or place where you can arrange this ... but i suggest you try aproaching your wife and try to explor new things together....TOYS...FANTACY ROLL PLAY.....FETISH PARTY's.......try that first... ------------------"lets dance , lets shout.. shake your body down to the ground..."lecy337@hotmail.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 i'm with you two - lecy and brian - on that one. sex outside of marriage is an ABSOLUTE no-no as far as i'm concerned. It doesn't matter if you're just doing it because you feel like, if you're paying for it, whatever - divorce your wife, things will be better for both of you in the long run. That's not fair that she should suffer because you can't keep your cock in your pants.try out some of the less 'freaky' stuff like lecy suggested. or keep your mouth shut, and be unhappy. maybe this is just a phase you're going through.luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted June 29 Report Share Posted June 29 wow - my apologies for the harshness of my last post.i was cheated on in a long term relationship where the guy was all talking about marriage, so i'd consider that he was pretty serious. only he wasn't, he felt like his fun on the side. it's just a very hostile topic for me. luv,brandie------------------"And those who were seen dancing were thought to be insane by those who could not hear the music."brandie@optonline.net Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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