jjbubbles123 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 alright, now is when we run into the big problems.. my b/f..the same one i was talking about earlier..is going to the navy at the end of october. . i dont know if i should stay with him or not while hes gone? do you think that being away from him so long will change the way i feel about him??? and now im really not sure about anything again, i kinda want to share something special with him that neither of us will ever forget, but i dont want it to be anything to extreme. do you have any sugggestions? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alrousasa Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Originally posted by jjbubbles123:alright, now is when we run into the big problems.. my b/f..the same one i was talking about earlier..is going to the navy at the end of october. . i dont know if i should stay with him or not while hes gone? do you think that being away from him so long will change the way i feel about him??? and now im really not sure about anything again, i kinda want to share something special with him that neither of us will ever forget, but i dont want it to be anything to extreme. do you have any sugggestions? First of all you should see other people while you two are apart.Secondly the time apart will tell if you are truly in love or if it's just infatuation.You and your BF should spend the day together doing something you both enjoy, movies, restaurant, club, theme park, whatever you might enjoy. Surprise him, maybe give him something to remember you by.Good Luck in this and future relationshipsKeanuP.S. You have a lot to learn about love booby ------------------ Pleasure is the only thing to live for............ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
klitika Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 WELL SAME HING HAPPENED TO ME LAST YR AND ITS TOUGH ALL I CAN SAY IS THAT IM NO LONGER W HIM NOT BECAUSE OF HOW HARD THE NAVY THING IS BUT BECAUSE SINCE ITS SO HARD THEY TEND TO WANT TO PARTY AFTER BOOTCAMP AND UNLESS HES BAsed close by keepin him well happy when you only c each other evry 3 months its hard very hard i suggest u do what feels best if u love him stay but im warnin u it s tough Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
buccafm Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 It's def hard I went thru it when my bf went into the Marines. The first three months was the hardest cause he's in bootcamp and you can't see or talk to them, you can only write letters. But the day of graduation to see his face was the best feeling ever. We didn't see anyone while he was away, even when he was based in North Carolina (I'm in Philly). We saw eachother once a month maybe and talked, it was def hard but def worth it. Good luck. If you want it to work it will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JackMeOff Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 That will be a good test for both of you. If it's meant to be it will be. You can't fool the crystal ball no matter how hard you try. I mean if he's your destiny then you will end up together again even if you date other people in the mean time.------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
evovr6 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 Yo, definitely forget about him, you know what they say "If it's on a boat, it doesn't count" If you really love hima and don't mind knowing that he has been "violated" then sure go for it.IN THE NAVY... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tato09 Posted October 19 Report Share Posted October 19 you are so burnt and whipped over him that u need to stop and realize what u are doing. think about it.. the navy, 2 years of training and then depending on what hes doing an additional 2+...... by the time he comes back hes gonna be 25!!!! chill out, go for guys your age, it'll do u alot better trust me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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