diesel00 Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 Alright, ya'll...I'm seriously having some problems, and this is the board that I think I can find some help. So here's the deal: "I can't get up."It started a couple nights ago...my girl and I were fixing to go at it, and she had my pants down. I was hard then, but she started performing a little oral, and it just like died on me. I'm like...could this be any more embarassing?!We haven't done anything since...so I decided to test it out tonight. I haven't masterbated for about a week, and tonight, when I tried, it just wasn't possible. I don't know what the deal was...I just couldn't get it up at all.Alright, I know ya'll are laughin' right now, but you gotta feel me. I'm seriously scared over here. Let me know if any of ya'll have ever had this, please? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nightgroover Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 Originally posted by diesel00 Alright, ya'll...I'm seriously having some problems, and this is the board that I think I can find some help. So here's the deal: "I can't get up."It started a couple nights ago...my girl and I were fixing to go at it, and she had my pants down. I was hard then, but she started performing a little oral, and it just like died on me. I'm like...could this be any more embarassing?!We haven't done anything since...so I decided to test it out tonight. I haven't masterbated for about a week, and tonight, when I tried, it just wasn't possible. I don't know what the deal was...I just couldn't get it up at all.Alright, I know ya'll are laughin' right now, but you gotta feel me. I'm seriously scared over here. Let me know if any of ya'll have ever had this, please? That only happens to me when I got a thick Motherfucker of a condom. Otherwise I can only tell you that it probably is a mind problem (Did you actually want to sleep with your girl at that time?). Now you are thinking too much about that it is not gonna work. This blocks it. How about getting smashed (So you are to drunk to remember your problem) watching a porno flick. I bet you you are gonna be horny as shit!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 i believe this has happened to all men at one point or another........but if it lasts for an excessive amount of time, then i suggest that you get yourself checked out sweets ::nolaughingmatter:: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 one time i was with this girl.. and the first time we did do something... my shit was hard for like maybe 5 mins and then it died.. but when i got a little more comfortable it was hard all the time... maybe your not used to her.. how long have you and your girl been together? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 yeah, don't fell bad - happens to everyone at some point.1. comfort level - absolutely true that the more comfortable you are and less feeling like you gotta prove yourself the easier to stay hard.2. mind games: this can definitely be a viscious cycle. the more wound up you get and anxious about it the more difficult it will be3. substances: another possible reason is drug / alcohol use. most have had a time were they were do under the influence of one thing or the other to get hard. its also true that prolonged use of some things can just make your shit not work. that's the body saying i can't operate as normal right now. clean that shit out and then you'll be all good again. (not saying you got any substance problems dude, just pointing out a possibility)4. stress: is something about your relationship, life, school, work, etc. really stressing you out? stress can make the soldier lay down too.of course, no personal experience here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
diesel00 Posted September 1 Author Report Share Posted September 1 man, I love ya'll. I think I got it figured out now.To answer a few questions...yeah, I just started my Freshman year of college down here. I don't feel stressed at all, because I love it. (I just gotta find something to do tonight, because all my friends went home for labor day weekend!). But, maybe I am a little uncomfortable here?And the girl and I...we've been seeing each other for about a month, so I dunno, maybe I am psyching myself out a little too much?Thanks! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted September 1 Report Share Posted September 1 remember, its all fun, its all good. part of the reason why new places are exciting is cause they are a little uncomfortable - keeps you on edge in a good way Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondie girl Posted September 2 Report Share Posted September 2 Have you ever taken steriods or drugs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 Originally posted by nightgroover How about getting smashed (So you are to drunk to remember your problem) watching a porno flick. I bet you you are gonna be horny as shit!!! Whatever you do, DO NOT DRINK!!!! It'll make it even harder for you to get up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted September 4 Report Share Posted September 4 In order to properly diagnose if this is a mental or physical problem you have to answer these ques...Do you wake up with a morning boner???ARe you stressed???What Drugs if any where or are you on???DOes this girl make you nervous???And are you concentrating on it???ooops one more thing i forgot to say... your title says it all if youre scared thats the problem... dont be scared sit back relax and dont think about shit.. ( i dont practice this but...)- if the girl doesnt do anything for you think of some porno you were watching before or some other girl maybe its just her and you guys dont click... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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