aboyfrombklyn Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 that my girl always gets mad when I don't call her or she can't get in touch with me during the day, despite the fact that she knows I'm really busy at work and no place else, but then she gets mad when I mention something to her when she doesn't call or I can't get in touch with her??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lollib Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Because dont you know by now that women are never satisfied!?!?!?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 if my man is busy at work, i would NEVER make a big thing about him not being able to talk to me, or vice versa.....work is work, its nothing personalmaybe its an immature, desperate cry for attention.... at least thats how i see it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 that's childish behavior. that's not an explanation, but the explanation probably goes very deep...she's probably insecure and you can't fix that, she'll have to grow up or get in therapy eventually to fix it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 3 Report Share Posted October 3 Oh no honey, that is not good. It's definitely insecurity, need for attention, clinginess, blah blah blah. I know your girl has childhood traumas to deal with, so it's pretty much expected. Just try your best to let her know she doesn't need to be so insecure and she needs to chill. That's too much pressure to put on someone, a situation like doesn't work- but I'm sure I'm not telling you anything you don't already know.Good luck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted October 3 Author Report Share Posted October 3 Thank you Tasty. I forgot to mention to everyone the childhood traumas my girl had, but I'm glad you remembered and understand. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 its because GIRLS ARE EVIL... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 4 Report Share Posted October 4 Originally posted by dgmodel its because GIRLS ARE EVIL... You'd better believe it!!!! On the reals though, I say maybe she used to people she loves leaving or something along those lines. Even though she knows you are at work, she still needs to be sure. Maybe she is just very insecure about herself and what she means to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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