xtotaleclipsex Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Hey guys...any of you in the college scene know about the whole frat boy characteristics...party, beer, and ass. Well I met this one boy who is pledging, to be in a frat, who seems pretty cool, but I'm kind of held back because if he is interested in being in this fraternity, doesn't that show what kind of guy he is? Not that I don't know some cool, nice guys in frats, but I know out of the one's I know they are all a lot alike.I want to make it clear what kind of girl I am to him. I am not about hooking up at all. But I want to do this without coming off like a bitchy prude, which I am not. I've talked to him a lot over the phone, but haven't seen him outside of a party(which is my fault because I ditched him by accident 2 times) So what should I do? Keep talking to him...don't bother or what? I just felt a little confused for a bit there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 GO FOR IT!You'll have lots of fun!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scorpiontiger Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 I second that e-motion! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 i'm a frat boy.it's not all Jam & Jelly like people think it is...the whole beer, rock music and hoochies thing is getting really old really fast.If you're going to go for him, just be careful, k? I've seen perfectly good guys become complete assholes when they get their letters. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 They [anyone] can become assholes when the get the digits, too. So, everyone should be careful, ALWAYS. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Guys in fraternities get a bad rap... They are not all assholes who are about the girls, beer, parties, etc. SOme of them are really nice guys who just clumped into the masses. I say go for it, especially if you like him..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Well The first peice of advice that anyone should give you and that Im gonna give you is to be honest. If you know he likes you and you like him lay your cards out tell him about how you feel about the whole fraternity stigma and how that has been affecting your behavior and tell him how you really feel.. be straight up. If he gets all pissed off that you told him the truth then you were right and fuck the jackass.. but if your wrong then you find your self at the start of some pretty good times with a great guy.. I would just go for it and if you wanna break it off with him later because he turned into one of those beer swilling frat boys who degrades women and plays beer pong every night.. then you can leave him but make sure your up for the consequnces.. have fun sweetie:tongue: -C and before anyone get all pissy about dissing frat boysI am a frat boy Sigma Phi Epsilon loud and proud Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 and before anyone gets pissy about him talking crap, be aware he's talking about MY house.and it's true damn beerpong and AC/DC all night. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laurensomers Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Guys in fraternities get a bad rap... They are not all assholes who are about the girls, beer, parties, etc. SOme of them are really nice guys who just clumped into the masses. I say go for it, especially if you like him..... True BUT some are easily pushed over/swayed by the masses. Be careful if this is one of him. If he cares too much what the other guys think, then he'll be too prone to dick you over. Especially if he is pledging right now...it takes up tons to time - just be aware!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
az-tec Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Originally posted by xtotaleclipsex Hey guys...any of you in the college scene know about the whole frat boy characteristics...party, beer, and ass. Well. Im a frat boy..and thats all i ever think about:rolleyes: lolseriously...give him a chance........ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 Originally posted by laurensomers True BUT some are easily pushed over/swayed by the masses. Be careful if this is one of him. If he cares too much what the other guys think, then he'll be too prone to dick you over. Especially if he is pledging right now...it takes up tons to time - just be aware!!! Good point...Not that it makes it right, but pledging is hell for those guys.....THere no excuse for treating someone you care about badly...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xtotaleclipsex Posted October 10 Author Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Good point...Not that it makes it right, but pledging is hell for those guys.....THere no excuse for treating someone you care about badly...... Thanks guys..there are always great responces on the sex board! You guys are mostly telling me what I have been thinking dto do..so I will see where it goes. I know all frat boys are not the same...and maybe he will be an exception, but maybe not. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by xtotaleclipsex Thanks guys..there are always great responces on the sex board! You guys are mostly telling me what I have been thinking dto do..so I will see where it goes. I know all frat boys are not the same...and maybe he will be an exception, but maybe not. Well, now you gotta keep us all updated......I say go for it, ya never know unless you try:) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 u and i are a lot alike, i can tell. and i know i would be reluctant in this situation too, because im not all about gettin ass either... but the only thing u can do is get to know him... thats the only way u can find out if he follows the trend of the typical 'frat boy' or if he is genuinely a good guy... if u like him as of right now, go for it... but go with caution b/c they dont have a bad reputation for nothing u know... but the only way u will ever know what kind of guy he is is if u get to know him personally... take things slow..as long as its worth it to u. if not, then there are plenty of fish in the sea *hehe* good luck!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Dont stereotype him, go for it, and see what happends ... what do you have to lose??? maybe hes doing it just to make friends or something who knows what goes through adolescent boys heads... i say get to know him first and see what happends then after an educated pt. of view then decide... IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nSyNcBaBy Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 after an educated pt. of view then decide... thats what i meant... after u actually have some knowledge about him, then make up ur mind.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 in any aspect of life i feel that regret is forever lasting and bad experience's are temporary... meaning that if you dont do it youll live forever saying what if blah blah blah, but if you do and G*d forbid it doesnt work out or dont like him bam drop him and its over... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JonStephen Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 I'm in a fraternity and the thing I hate most is the rep.Listen, all guys will show their true colors when you give them the opportunity. If he seems like a good guy, give him a chance. If he acts like a retard at social gatherings, chances are he isn't the one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SPYGIRL3 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by dgmodel in any aspect of life i feel that regret is forever lasting and bad experience's are temporary... meaning that if you dont do it youll live forever saying what if blah blah blah, but if you do and G*d forbid it doesnt work out or dont like him bam drop him and its over... Regert sucks, at least if you attempt something, you'll know Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by SPYGIRL2 Regert sucks, at least if you attempt something, you'll know I agreee with the cute girl -C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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