tastyt Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 If it's going nowhere and your man looks like he's about to burst a blood vessel from trying to get you off, do you hit those high notes and hope he doesn't notice that your skin isn't adequately flushed afterwards??? Do you just tell him to let go, and have him finish you off later, or do it yourself???Or do you *always* finish first and this is a non-issue??? (Okay, let me roll my eyes here because I know yer lyin'... ) To answer my own question:No, never, never have, never would, never could. I have no problem finishing in second place- hell sometimes it's better that way, you can just turn to jello afterwards and not have to worry about moving a muscle. Besides- I really don't think I could fake it. I think it would be pretty obvious if my orgasms weren't genuine; theyr'e pretty hard to replicate.So what do you do??? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted October 9 Report Share Posted October 9 A girl should never, ever fake it. Faking destroys the honesty and maturity required for truly good sex.Men have to learn what pleases their woen and also learn that sometimes, no matter what you do or hopw good you are its just noyt gonna happen. Just like women need to know that sometimes even the best of us finish too soon or occassionally not at all. And also to realize that for a variety of reasons sometimes we don't get hard or get 100% hard or can't stay hard. Sometimes sex is a porn movie - sometimes not and every body needs to develop the relaxed attitude that takes it in stride. If your man doesn't get hard laugh it off. See if he still enjoy the feeling and maybe still blow him or cuddle nd get him to work double shifts on you - if you can take it. If she doesn't cum ask her if their is anyting that would finish her or just finish yourself off quick and cuddle. Its all good - we are not machines/And faking when its a man you don't really care about (one night stand) is still developping bad habits on your end. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aboyfrombklyn Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 I have to agree. I don't think anyone should ever fake it. I faked coming one time a while ago. It was because I was so drunk and couldn't come if my life depended on it. She was already finished and kept asking me if I was gonna come anytime soon, so I faked it. Stupid, I know, I should've just stopped, but she really wanted me to enjoy it just as much. I'll never do that to my girlfriend though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest gabo Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by tastyt If it's going nowhere and your man looks like he's about to burst a blood vessel from trying to get you off, do you hit those high notes and hope he doesn't notice that your skin isn't adequately flushed afterwards??? Do you just tell him to let go, and have him finish you off later, or do it yourself???Or do you *always* finish first and this is a non-issue??? (Okay, let me roll my eyes here because I know yer lyin'... ) To answer my own question:No, never, never have, never would, never could. I have no problem finishing in second place- hell sometimes it's better that way, you can just turn to jello afterwards and not have to worry about moving a muscle. Besides- I really don't think I could fake it. I think it would be pretty obvious if my orgasms weren't genuine; theyr'e pretty hard to replicate.So what do you do??? so after you cum you lay there like jello? Hmm well your never gonna get a guy to cum by just lying there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 nice topic...LOL i hate to say it but yes i have faked it. ive never gotten silly and acted like i was having the best orgasm of my life but when a guy is trying really hard to please you and he has no chance in hell of getting you off, what are you suppossed to do?? just sit there and let him keep going when hes not getting you any closer to an orgasm??? me and my friends talk about this all the time and laugh because it has happened to all of us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barvybe Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 faking's bound to happen. especially in casual sex. but in a relationship its counter productive - makes the guy think he's doing a great job when he isn't.if you aren't gonna cum cause he's just not doing y'a right, talk to him and find something that worksif you aren't gonna cum just cause you aren't, tell himi don't always cum during sex - that doesn't mean i don't enjoy it. sometimes the doing is as good or better then the finishing. plus, i come really hard from what i hear - my whole body shakes and convulses, i collapse if i'm standing and shiver for like a minute. sometimes my body just isn't up for that. i just tell the girl: hey look, this feels really great but i'm not gonna have an orgasm. let me know if you need to stop. honesty is always better - a guy worth his salts gonna be psyched if you teach him how to make you feel good anyway. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by somebitch nice topic...LOL i hate to say it but yes i have faked it. ive never gotten silly and acted like i was having the best orgasm of my life but when a guy is trying really hard to please you and he has no chance in hell of getting you off, what are you suppossed to do?? just sit there and let him keep going when hes not getting you any closer to an orgasm??? me and my friends talk about this all the time and laugh because it has happened to all of us. here's a novel idea... show him how? Granted you shouldn't have to! but a) you'd be helping your gender out immensely, you may even help his gender out to help your gender out, c) you might even get a little something out of it.Of course.. there's the whole survival of the fittest, so it gives the fairer sex one more yardstick.. err ruler, to weed out the weak.In case, you were wondering.. yeah.. I've faked it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketfuel76 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 faked it too, not to an absurb extent though. Or sometimes I'll just tell the person, sometimes thats the best thing to do.but when you do this though you leave a bruised ego, so Im not really sure where to go with this one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
b-side Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by tastyt Besides- I really don't think I could fake it. I think it would be pretty obvious if my orgasms weren't genuine; theyr'e pretty hard to replicate.So what do you do??? So are you saying that you're a real SCREAMER You know my story TastyT..... I wish I could bust one off... as much as some people fake it... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by rocketfuel76 faked it too, not to an absurb extent though. Or sometimes I'll just tell the person, sometimes thats the best thing to do.but when you do this though you leave a bruised ego, so Im not really sure where to go with this one. better a bruised ego, than a dry... I can't speak for all men, but I'd rather know than not. Granted when it comes to orgasms you shouldn't have to ask, there are certain, shall we say, biological tendancies, involuntary contractions, skin flushing, et al. that should be all the tip off you need. Yes, I know. All women are different, but more often than not, I believe the above to hold true. My original point, don't cop out to save a man's ego to rid yourself of guilt of the damage it might cause. Hopefully, you know your man better than anyone and what you can and can't get away with, and if you plan on seeing him beyond that night, will have a vested interest in his knowledge of the female anatomy.I have too many points to make and not enough time to say it in... bah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rocketfuel76 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 unjumpdaboogie I understand your point. Are we talking about one nighters, casual sex, or bf/gf?????? There would be a diff. answer for all of those!!!!!!one nighters- I would just get the hell out of there if it sucked, and I wouldn't say anything!!!!casual sex- I would def. tell a sex friend, but if they sucked they wouldn't be my sex friend!!!!!Bf/gf- you better believe my ass would tell you!!!!!LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 agreed. All very valid answers. What was the original context of the message.. oh yeah, that all applies. I think you said it best, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by upjumpdaboogie better a bruised ego, than a dry... I can't speak for all men, but I'd rather know than not. Granted when it comes to orgasms you shouldn't have to ask, there are certain, shall we say, biological tendancies, involuntary contractions, skin flushing, et al. that should be all the tip off you need. Yes, I know. All women are different, but more often than not, I believe the above to hold true. My original point, don't cop out to save a man's ego to rid yourself of guilt of the damage it might cause. Hopefully, you know your man better than anyone and what you can and can't get away with, and if you plan on seeing him beyond that night, will have a vested interest in his knowledge of the female anatomy.I have too many points to make and not enough time to say it in... bah sometimes if things arent goign the way you want them to you would rather just stop than try to teach the person. if a guy is really bad the easy way out is to just fake it and save yourself the trouble Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by somebitch sometimes if things arent goign the way you want them to you would rather just stop than try to teach the person. if a guy is really bad the easy way out is to just fake it and save yourself the trouble ..because I wouldn't know anything about that. [or] the answer I should have given... fair enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 im guilty of faking it ---- sorry, but the guy's junk just wasnt fulfilling size-wise how do you tell someone that????never faked it other than that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
upjumpdaboogie Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by sum12nv im guilty of faking it ---- sorry, but the guy's junk just wasnt fulfilling size-wise how do you tell someone that????never faked it other than that SO kidding, in case you didn't know.. I guess there was no ocean motioning going on either.. it was more like a puddle you say? Or make that teardrop. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 he had motion...just a dick the size of my thumb!!! my own fault for not checking out the goods before hand --- 1st and last time for that mistake Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
somebitch Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by sum12nv he had motion...just a dick the size of my thumb!!! my own fault for not checking out the goods before hand --- 1st and last time for that mistake LOL. seriously, thats gotta suck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sum12nv Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by somebitch LOL. seriously, thats gotta suck girl...you have no ideai seriously wanted to reach over for a nail file, i was so bored!! i know its not the guy's fault he is small...but that shit was so funny watching him go like crazy and he thought he was doing good... awwww :laugh: i know .... im goin' to hell Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 10 Author Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by gabo so after you cum you lay there like jello? Hmm well your never gonna get a guy to cum by just lying there. Mmmm no I like to turn to jello but I only do so if he's already finished... No complaints there . Of course if the timing's right and you both go off at once it's not even an issue... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nrgy112 Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 heard a funny joke about this exact topic.Why do women fake Orgasms?Because they think we care. :cool: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted October 10 Author Report Share Posted October 10 Originally posted by b-side So are you saying that you're a real SCREAMER You know my story TastyT..... I wish I could bust one off... as much as some people fake it... Poor B-Side... One of these days you'll find yourself a beautiful intelligent sex-crazed nympho who needs it for hours on end! I don't know maybe if I tried faking it would work but I have no inclination to start!!! But what would you do to make it convincing, try and find the perfect intensity, pitch and timing of the screams and moans? Like Upjumpdaboogie said there are certain things that can't be faked anyway... like the skin flushing... I dunno I guess it would be easy to pull off on a lot of guys, unfortunately. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mrdick Posted October 10 Report Share Posted October 10 I got the Plan Dyanna!I will come over and give you endless hours of real orgasms which we will catch on video. Then we'll editdown to the best ones and use it as a training device so you can watch yourself and copy them. Weshould have you faking like a veteran porn star in no time Of course to round out your skills we'll have to tape all different types of Orgams - anal, g-spot, clitoral, squirting, combined-atack hehe I am nothing if not professional. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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