PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 is it wrong to keep things to yourself sometimes?sucks when someone asks you a personal question then gets pissed when you dont' wanna answer it.. i mean, just b/c you told me, w/o me ever asking, i should be obligated to tell you?i just dont' think its right..and specifically, when a bad experience from your past is what is stopping you from opening up, is it still wrong?just pondering some things.. sorry to ramble.. if you females weren't su ;ch sketchy psycho freaks this wouldnt' be such a problem Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
msoprano Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by PFloyd40 is it wrong to keep things to yourself sometimes?sucks when someone asks you a personal question then gets pissed when you dont' wanna answer it.. i mean, just b/c you told me, w/o me ever asking, i should be obligated to tell you?i just dont' think its right..and specifically, when a bad experience from your past is what is stopping you from opening up, is it still wrong?just pondering some things.. sorry to ramble.. if you females weren't su ;ch sketchy psycho freaks this wouldnt' be such a problem LMFAOOOOOO :laugh: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
brandie Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 i told you the other day, darlin . . . i'll kick whomever's ass it is that keeps bothering you about your personal life ~ brandie ~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ggfella4 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by PFloyd40 is it wrong to keep things to yourself sometimes?sucks when someone asks you a personal question then gets pissed when you dont' wanna answer it.. i mean, just b/c you told me, w/o me ever asking, i should be obligated to tell you?i just dont' think its right..and specifically, when a bad experience from your past is what is stopping you from opening up, is it still wrong?just pondering some things.. sorry to ramble.. if you females weren't su ;ch sketchy psycho freaks this wouldnt' be such a problem hahahah, i hear ya bro.... get em brandie!!!! jkjkjkjkpeace outgianni Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jbocc10 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 i feel you rob Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kludgio Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 why, Rob? who is she and what did she ask you? i can be secretive about a lot of personal things. i disclose information when i feel comfortable talking about it, and comfortable with the person. the latter includes trusting that they will not make any rash conclusions about me, will hold the information in strict confidence, and will not react in some stupid way about it. choosing how you reveal information to people is how you determine how much you trust a person, as a person and as a friend, and how much you want to let them "in". anyone who pushes to get "in" will only find themselves struggling with a greater resistence someone who values you as a person does not need to know facts and details about your history to evaluate you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
boa_boy Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 I hear u 2 Rob, it seldom comes up, because I maintain an aura of overwhelmingly open bookedness, yet do keep a lot of stuff hidden away all mysteriouslike.......and yes I can be a manipulative prick Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by PFloyd40 just pondering some things.. sorry to ramble.. if you females weren't su ;ch sketchy psycho freaks this wouldnt' be such a problem :laugh:it could be worse. your pet could be posting. (j/k mugz!)but anyway it isnt wrong to keep thing to yourself Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sassa Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Well, it depends on who you're with and what they're asking...I can totally relate to you though. I'm a very private person, usually. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j303j Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 freek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 you totally have a right to your privacy. a lot of times i won't answer a question unless i know WHY they are asking. don't you love it when someone asks "can i ask you a question?" sometimes i say, "sure, you can ask, but that doesn't mean i'll answer!" asking doesn't mean getting answers! even if you answered, if it's not what they expected for hoped for, they'll turn it around to suit their purpose. maybe we should just all follow the "don't ask, don't tell" rule!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by boa_boy I hear u 2 Rob, it seldom comes up, because I maintain an aura of overwhelmingly open bookedness, yet do keep a lot of stuff hidden away all mysteriouslike.......and yes I can be a manipulative prick see i'm more the opposite.. i've always been fairly closed book.. except for a couple times, one of which i regret..that is the problem.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by kludgio why, Rob? who is she and what did she ask you? i can be secretive about a lot of personal things. i disclose information when i feel comfortable talking about it, and comfortable with the person. the latter includes trusting that they will not make any rash conclusions about me, will hold the information in strict confidence, and will not react in some stupid way about it. choosing how you reveal information to people is how you determine how much you trust a person, as a person and as a friend, and how much you want to let them "in". anyone who pushes to get "in" will only find themselves struggling with a greater resistence someone who values you as a person does not need to know facts and details about your history to evaluate you does strict confidence even exist anymore or has it ever?can one truly absorb information about another w/o their image of that individual being tainted?what if there are somethings abotu yourself you choose to keep completely to yourself.. not telling anyone? does that still mean you dont' trust that person in particular?ugh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tottallyoff Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 I really do not take offence when people tell me that the answer to a question that I am posing is too personal. I usually try to understand them when they say that and respect their right to privacy. I could be called secretive and hidden, but that does not mean you should be lurking in the dark corners of the city and talk to the voices in your head, does it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trancebaby Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Fuck them... you don'thave to tell anyone anything that you don'twant to. Just tell them straight out.. leave me alone! Just because you keep things to yourself, doesnt mean you are bad or secretive... shit, if you told everyone everything they wanted to know it would be boring.. and vice versa. So, don't stress... let them be mad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cazz926 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Screw them nosy bitches. If they wanna hear something, then give em something to hear. Tell em something really random and bizarre like you like making love to warm wet socks and you just urinated on yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tottallyoff Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Its not about being nosy. When you are friends with someone, stuff like that comes up. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blaznny Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by PFloyd40 does strict confidence even exist anymore or has it ever?can one truly absorb information about another w/o their image of that individual being tainted?what if there are somethings abotu yourself you choose to keep completely to yourself.. not telling anyone? does that still mean you dont' trust that person in particular?ugh fuck em... fuck em in the ear... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by cazz926 Screw them nosy bitches. If they wanna hear something, then give em something to hear. Tell em something really random and bizarre like you like making love to warm wet socks and you just urinated on yourself. bwahahahahacazz, will you marry me? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by blaznny fuck em... fuck em in the ear... hahahahaha Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cazz926 Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by PFloyd40 bwahahahahacazz, will you marry me? Only if (and I think you feel me on this) we get into personal talking when there's a blunt involved.So did ever make it to Dance Ritual? There's barely any talking there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by cazz926 Only if (and I think you feel me on this) we get into personal talking when there's a blunt involved.So did ever make it to Dance Ritual? There's barely any talking there. mad L'sand havent' made it to DR at centro.. school's a bitch.. havent' gone out in months actually.. u? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Saint Posted October 29 Report Share Posted October 29 Like a tiger, my eyes be swindling like palm treesSwaying as a hip above pubic interestsBeing taken out of context is a context of its own Opening up to the chosen few, savoring their domeWhom delights like bats in the sky inhaling lovers mist as a begger to a swigTaken out of context is a trick of sly proportion...Saint!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PinkFloyd40 Posted October 29 Author Report Share Posted October 29 Originally posted by Saint Like a tiger, my eyes be swindling like palm treesSwaying as a hip above pubic interestsBeing taken out of context is a context of its own Opening up to the chosen few, savoring their domeWhom delights like bats in the sky inhaling lovers mist as a begger to a swigTaken out of context is a trick of sly proportion...Saint!!! damn bro.. been a long time.. how ya been?i'll need a couple weeks to decipher.. look back around the 10th of november or so, and i should have replied by then Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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