djmoonshine Posted January 24 Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by guccigrlnyc NO NOT ALWAYS, MY BF IS SOOOOO NICE TO ME AND SWEET, AND I DO LOVE HIM AND ALL BUT SOMETIMES THAT SHIT GETS ANNOYING LIKE YELL AT ME OR CALL ME A BITCH OR SOMETHING! BE MEAN ONCE IN AWHILE LOL I USED TO DATE ALL COCKY ASSHOLES BUT NOW I ACTUALLY FOUND A NICE HOTTIE! but damn... that just sounds really ignorant... call me bitch???! hell no... maybe the words you are looking for are ~ BE MORE ASSERTIVE! what woman wants to be refered to as bitch by their "nice hottie" boyfriend??? and i agree... there is no bigger turn off then a man who does't stand up for himself... There must be balance, as with all things in life... ~be sweet, be a gentleman, but don't be a pushover, don't allow your thoughts and values to be altered... not by anyone. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 24 Author Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by djmoonshine and i agree... there is no bigger turn off then a man who does't stand up for himself... There must be balance, as with all things in life... ~be sweet, be a gentleman, but don't be a pushover, don't allow your thoughts and values to be altered... not by anyone. I hear ya...sort of. Someone altering my life will never happen, but it seems to me that ladies aren't looking for that balance these day. It's either the "pushover" or the "cocky A-hole"!I just don't get it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 24 Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by spragga25 I hear ya...sort of. Someone altering my life will never happen, but it seems to me that ladies aren't looking for that balance these day. It's either the "pushover" or the "cocky A-hole"!I just don't get it! How about just being youself? When Ms Right comes along...she'll recognize who you are.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 24 Author Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by marcid21 How about just being youself? When Ms Right comes along...she'll recognize who you are.... I'm already like that - the peeps that have met me before know this. I just think that lots of people here (NYC not CP) put up a front. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycchic24 Posted January 24 Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by glowdancer ive noticed nice guys end up with the biggest bitchesand nice girls end up with the biggest jerks (my own past experiences)thats life very good point! but Spragga -- yes NYC is pretentioius but its not just isolated here. I mean i lived in bosotn for years and found the same ol Sh*t. you cannot compare this to when you are back in college, its a different way of life, etc. (plus thats in rochester! - *joke*) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 24 Author Report Share Posted January 24 Originally posted by nycchic24 very good point! but Spragga -- yes NYC is pretentioius but its not just isolated here. I mean i lived in bosotn for years and found the same ol Sh*t. you cannot compare this to when you are back in college, its a different way of life, etc. (plus thats in rochester! - *joke*) I hear ya - the attitude is prevalent in most "big" cities. I never felt that way up in the "ROC" - and there's over a million people that live there. Maybe it's laid back atmosphere or something up there. Just a thought - not bashing the city! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
randall16 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by glowdancer ive noticed nice guys end up with the biggest bitchesand nice girls end up with the biggest jerks (my own past experiences)thats life YOU CAN SAY THAT AGAIN:mad: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 im tired of being a nice guy... it fuckin get you nowhere... fuck this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
atomicapples Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 you get dicked haLF The time... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 YOU GET FUCKED OVER EVERYTIME! EVEN OUTSIDE OF ROMANTIC SITUATIONS. IN LIFE, IN GENERAL... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mssabina Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by dgmodel im tired of being a nice guy... it fuckin get you nowhere... fuck this. awww don't give up! it makes me sad to see what some of us girls take for granted and yeah, whoever said the nicest guys end up with the biggest bitches was right on point.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by mssabina awww don't give up! it makes me sad to see what some of us girls take for granted and yeah, whoever said the nicest guys end up with the biggest bitches was right on point.... ::sigh:: it is sad but true, maybe sweet nice guys like getting pushed around by these bitches:rolleyes: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 25 Author Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by dgmodel im tired of being a nice guy... it fuckin get you nowhere... fuck this. I'm starting to agree with you about this! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stonedcl Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by spragga25 Do they ALWAYS finish last?Seems to me like that is the case. Dude you are soo right.. The girls dont wanna bang the nice guys, just take advantage of us?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaligirl Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by spragga25 I'm starting to agree with you about this! Hey you. Being a dick will only get you so far for so long, and you know that. Like I told you before I have noticed the same thing with alot of the people in NY. The single scene or whatever you want to call it sucks here. Its not the same everywhere either. I know I go on about Kali,( SAn Diego) but it is so different there. Like in the clubs everyone is conversating with each other. Girls and guys have no problem approaching each other to dance or whatever. I love NY and everything, I just don't understand why things are the way they are here. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
acura Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by spragga25 I'm starting to agree with you about this! I reached this point a lil while ago, but now I think i found a happy medium between being too nice and being an asshole.One benefit I like about being a nice guy, good person, etc. is that people seem to enjoy my company and I have alot of friends that would go out of their way for me. Just my .02But when it comes to trying to get into a succesful relationship? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pookie23 Posted January 25 Author Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by kaligirl Hey you. Being a dick will only get you so far for so long, and you know that. Like I told you before I have noticed the same thing with alot of the people in NY. The single scene or whatever you want to call it sucks here. Its not the same everywhere either. I know I go on about Kali,( SAn Diego) but it is so different there. Like in the clubs everyone is conversating with each other. Girls and guys have no problem approaching each other to dance or whatever. I love NY and everything, I just don't understand why things are the way they are here. Finally - someone that knows where I'm coming from! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by spragga25 Finally - someone that knows where I'm coming from! Who knows what it is that causes the whole metro area to be so stereotypical and judgemental. I'm sure somewhere down the line I'm guilty of all of that too though... But yeah, I guess I've noticed this in lots of places that I've been to Boston, Portland OR, Atlanta, Dallas, Chicago.....these are just some of the places I've been to when the crowd just seems a lot more friendlier and less uptight.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gothzane Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Being an evil psychotic nice guy seems to be a good balance....*Cackle*I can be a loyal trustworthy companion....but fuck with me and ill beat you to death with a rubber chicken. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
siceone Posted January 25 Report Share Posted January 25 Originally posted by dgmodel sometimes we dont even finish. holla Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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