soldado Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Well I moved down to Mia ...hmmm 3 years ago from NYC, and lately I been feeling more and more home sick for NYC. I mean I really have not to many friends in NYC anymore since most of them turned out to be Back Stabbing foolz. ( Not going to get into that story ) Well since moving down here Its taken some time to get use to the pace of Mia...I think i finally got some what use to it, but it still doesnt feel like home. I have made Great friends here in Mia,,,butAfter 3 years or should i still feel like this? or Is this a clue for me to move back? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalmethod Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 I dont know butI want to move down to MiamiI need a change of pace.Live there for say, like 3 years, then come back to the city.Whats your lifestyle like down there? What do you do for work, etc?-Steve Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 Im a computer Tech...for now.... I want to become Cisco Cert at years end if possible and take some computer Languages. When not doing that F#$@#$@ around with MP3's.My life Style,,,Every other week hit a club and etc....basically.So super bored I go to the gym like every day lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalmethod Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by soldado Im a computer Tech...for now.... I want to become Cisco Cert at years end if possible and take some computer Languages. When not doing that F#$@#$@ around with MP3's.My life Style,,,Every other week hit a club and etc....basically.So super bored I go to the gym like every day lol Know any club owners that need bartenders? LOLI'd just like to waste my life away for a year or 2 in SOBE before finally... growing up on the homestretch and forsaking clubland. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shugabooga Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 i left atlanta three years ago and still have lots of really good friends there - people i've known for a very long time. i love visiting. it's a beautiful city with beautiful weather, much cleaner, newer, more spacious and more affordable than new york. going there is like going to disneyland. however, i don't want to move back anytime soon, maybe not for years, maybe never.you should give yourself the "intuition test." flip a coin.....heads, you stay in Miami, tails you move back to New York........pretend that the flip of the coin is your final decision and gauge your reaction to it......that might help you figure it out. it helps me sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 The people in NYC are RUDE and etc...they say ,,,But I love that people in NYC are realLots of people here in Fla I find to be full of them selves not all but alot more than in NYC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest tilly Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 It would be great if you could divide your time between the 2 cities..the best of both worlds...but practically or at least for now, you can't so...everywhere you go you will find your share of aggrevations. I know exactly what you are saying about the pace, vibe, etc down there. I personally can't deal with it..it's just not ME. It's fun to visit but ultimately it doesn't feel like home. I have had my own struggles here with music and pretention. Finally, I think all of that is changing (**cough breakbeat parties**cough cough**). NYers can be rude but so can FLoridians. The thing about NY is that you have much more to chose from. This is something you will have to decide for yourself...and only you know what you should do...follow your gut instincts...they will lead the way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
getyourgooveon Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 That doesn't cut it. Miami is so wierd.P.s. Nice sig, could use some more purple, but looks like unfinished painting, maybe its finished. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tottallyoff Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Not to worry. Soon, NYC CP crew is going to invade Miami for WMC and you can feel you are in NYC all over again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 tott thanks I think i might give it to April to see how things might go and give me a chance to save a few dollars...P.S.Keep me in the loop about WMC Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprincess218 Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 sounds like you need to make some more friends...you say you go clubbing every few weeks and it doesn't sound like you do much in between those times...there are TONS of places to meet people other than clubs...I say GET OUT and CIRCULATE and quit sitting in front of your computer whinning! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 well I work full time and after work I do enjoy going to the gym and by the time i get home from the gym its like 7 pm or so.Stop sitting at your computer whinning! = )Im at work right now hahah Is that not what we all do when we go to work... j/kIm really selective on who i call a friend...but thanks for the suggestion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprincess218 Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Originally posted by soldado Im really selective on who i call a friend...but thanks for the suggestion. I should have phrased what I said better...I didn't mean to sound rude. It's not about calling people "friends", it's about meeting people who have similar interests and knowing if you exchange digits with so-and-so at the gym he/she is down to go wherever and thus the circle continues...you don't need to be best friends with the people you go out with, just friendly enough to have some people around to enjoy yourself with. If you want, I can give you my sister's name and e-mail (she's super cool, not just cause she's my sister) and she can introduce you to some people down there...she LOVES it in Miami (and she's from NY)! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystalmethod Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 Im moving there next winter damn it! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 I did not think your post was rude,but to the point. Thank you for the advice. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sprincess218 Posted January 30 Report Share Posted January 30 I can understand your apprehension to making new "friends" as it seems your past experience wasn't too good but it will happen for you. You seem cool (you're a CPer for cryin out loud! ) You've lasted 3 years so it can't be that bad. Things will start looking up soon. Maybe you need to come visit to cure your aching heart:heart:. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 30 Author Report Share Posted January 30 I was in NYC last June and ....I was doing everything in my power to miss that freaken plane. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
soldado Posted January 31 Author Report Share Posted January 31 Well if all goes well I'll be in NYC no later than April.* Fires up the Fax and Monster Board *So make rooom for me out on the dance floor!Hope I'll be welcomed.Hey What can I say when I get motivated I go all out...Must be the Marine in me = ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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