quote: -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Originally posted by raver_mania: Do what?? Get a hard-on?? Ummm...cuz its just a natural response to sexual excitement/stimulation. And if you don't want a guy to get a hard-on then don't grind! You can't expect to grind against a guy and have him stay down all the time. And Rachel1997, no (speaking for myself at least), not all guys want to grind women so they can come. For one thing, grinding is enuf stimulation to maybe get a hard-on, but definitely not to come. It requires a lot more to reach that stage, in which case, its not grinding anymore but total sexual stimulation. Though I also have to say that there are some guys out there that do expect that...IMO, very sexually frustrated guys! -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Ok Im with Rach1997 on this one... Why do they have to come and grind?... Whats up with all the grinding?... Dont guys know how to dance in other ways... And Raver Mania.. im not uneducated i know what a hard on is... my question was WHY DO THEY HAVE TO GRIND?... But I guess obviously is to cop a cheap thrill!