The best thing to do for any fundraiser is to find out if/what the family of the lost person would like. Brandie since you were close to this person you might want to ask the parents if not a relative. Some people have differents ways of donating money and some don't at all. It can goto a church, childrens fund, etc. Once you have any information on this Brandie please let us know. I personally don't know you or your friend that took his life but I will donate to a family member on this board. Kittie - It sucks but there are people who care and people who don't. I think we know where your heart is. I speak cause I'm still not over a tragedy that happened 2 yrs ago. ------------------ It's all in the music