LikmyLipz

no what shes saying is, some people have kids for the wrong reason... have kids cause you want them, because you enjoy the thought of having them around, because you cant wait to take care of them and do fun things with them... dont have them because you are expected to, or because you were to fucking cheep to buy condoms...

actually its not... i could say plenty of times i have used oral sex to make a man hard for sex, or guys have done the same for me to get me wet for sex.. but i did plan on making him cum.. but he didnt... so... I have to wait dont I...

i just thinking plunging at orgasm would be amazing..

no he didnt even act like he had to cum..

lol shhhhh u just want me for your self.. he didnt tell me to stop, he says he has self control......

actually every thing seemed fine, his ballz are small not smaller then normal though but that i dont mind. huge balls are grossssssssss.. i sucked him off for about 15 mins, he was really enjoying himself, moaning, had his head tilted back with his mouth open and his eyes closed.. he was playing with my hair.. he didnt want to cum though, he thinks its disrespectful to cum in my mouth with out me telling him to, so he said he just holds himself back and dont cum..... I cant wait to make him cum, i plan on swallowing for him..

yes he got his cak sucked.. lol he offered to return the favor but i dont really want him to.. and its funny cause we are both huge teases, so we tease the shit out of eachother till we're about to beat the shit out of eacother.. by the time we actually fuck there is gonna be so much sexual tension were prob gonna drop dead from great orgasms

its not just my idea.. its his too.. i tried to get it on the other day and he was like, no u know ur a good girl, and im afraid that will mess things up between us, so lets take it slow and wait for it to happen on its own.

but ur missing my point i dotn even want a kid... i dont want to adopt... i dont want a child.. i said if in like 20yrs i decide i wanna f'n kid i'll adopt it.. and u know what, it takes a strong f'n person to be able to raise and love someone elses child, you never adopted who are you to say its different.. and whos to say even if i gave birth to my own child, that it will look like me? this is so fucking off topic its not funny.....

just because you have a child, and i dont want any doesnt mean i will never know what love is.. I think loving a child and loving a spouse are 2 different loves, and if you confuse the 2, i think you're a warped son of a bitch.... and btw thats ur own opinion that I WILL NEVER LOVE.. and u know what? if thats the way you see it, i guess i never will in your eyes.. but that dont really matter to me. Im not trying to sell any feelings to you... lol

lol i so dont know what to thinkkkkkkkkk

I understand allthough like i said, i'd rather adopt a child...

well I dont think having a Vasectomy would stop the spread of aids.. thats like saying a Historectmy would stop the spread of genetal warts.... Maybe he had a testecular problem, and had to have something removed or operated on, and now cant have kids, but just tells me he had a vasectomy.. He said he usually dont like to tell girls about it because they get turned off and most girls want children. But im understanding, and he trusts me.

this is what i said.. but he says he has proof that he will show me... im thinking maybe he had a health reason that he got this done, that maybe hes not comfortable talking about just yet.. I totally understand.. Either way so far i think hes a great guy...

actually, in my opinion, he wouldnt be the 'right guy' unless he didnt want kids either.. lol

im very selfish, i like the fact i have niece n nephiew that i can play with, have sleep over, take out, and still give them back when im done with them... I was in the delivery room while my sister gave birth, and this did scar me a bit, allthough it might sound stupid... enough people are having kids that i dont need to reproduce. And if i ever change my mind, there are alot of children who are not babies (usually couples who can not reproduce want babys) who never asked to be born, who just want someone to love them, that need loving homes.. i know everyone says im young and that i'll change my mind.. but i dont think i will... im just not intreasted in children, and dont have full time patience for them, therefor i dont want them...

yeah but remember.. he dont have any kids.. and hes not even 25yet..

on free fall at great adventure, and the second im having an orgasm, to fall....

have fun trying to explain those tan lines...

why not? girls turn me on sexually , not emotionally. I cant picture myself falling "in-love" with a female. Dont get me wrong , I have plenty of female friends I love, but not on that emotional connected level, its just a friendship level. Besides I dont get that security and safe feeling around females that I do around males.

yes girls turn me on totally, im turned on by both sexes

girls are pretty... I only date guys though.. lol thanks people for the help... I guess I'll just ask for proof...

So my new boyfriend, that i havent yet had sex with ( we have been seen eachother for about a month or so) said he got a vasectomy last year.. but hes young (under 25)... Im not sure I believe him, I dont know if a dr would do it at such a young age... It dont bother me if he has really had it done, because I like him alot and i dont want children ever either... and he really dont want kids himself.. Do I believe him? He said if i dont believe him he will show me proof of the operation if i'd like. We are still gonna have protected sex untill we are together for quite a while, and Im not really worried about it because we are taking everything slow, and we are not sure about how long we want to wait before we have sex... but he said eventually he hopes we can trust eachother enough to have unprotected sex, and we have nothing to worry about.. should i trust him, should i ask for proof? is there any way i can tell on my own? would a dr even do it at such a young age? someone helppppppppp

tyyyyyyy darling

no deff dont like wet toosh hole