clubbincutie

does anyone have info on deep? like its address, cover, dress code and if theres a guestlist for tonight...thanx

now if only it were that easy

i know what u mean...my relationship of almost 3 years ended last month...being single again is like being in another world

yea i cry somedays or when i'm reminded about certain things...n the holidays comin up are goin to be weird, i miss his family too..but i knowing that i made the decision since he coldnt give me what i needed to leave kinda makes me feel empowered and respect myself more...either way, the winter is gonna b tough..when it gets all cold n yucky out, u kno the first thing u wanna do is stay in w/someone...guess thats what friends r for..hehe..thanx for all the kind words..it does help talkin n knowin others have been there and gotten thru it..thanx everyone

im from north jersey, essex county u kno, i have found that workin out helps alot..it makes me feel like im doin somethin for myself.. i realize i jus gotta keep doin what im doin and eventually all those thoughts that now pop into my head and make me sad, will go away...so u were where i am a few months ago? n u survived? hehe, u will be my inspiration thanx for the encouragemnt.. perns-sure u can b president of the support group...so when n where is the first meetin? hehe... n about the being single again thing..i thnk its weird for me because the last time i was single i was 18-19..now im 22...its a whole differnt scene now...and im not really lookin forward to all the games that go along with meeting n gettin to kno someone knew..u kno what im talkin bout..givin ur # to someone, then wonderin if hes gonna call..if he does n u hang out, will he call again, what does he think,etc....im very straight forward and honest but i wish more guys were..it would be so much easier

u really do kno what i mean...he was my best friend too, so its like losing 2 at once, and i miss both...i just wish time would go a little quicker, ive gone thru way too many tissues, we're talkin boxes, hehe...jus gotta keep workin thru it i guess..i mean my friends say, u jus gotta get out there, meet new people, etc...but u kno how long its been since ive met/talked to/hung out w/guys as a single girl? its a whole different side of things...anyway it helps to kno others are goin thru it...we need a support group or somethin...hehe

dknybabe, ur 100% right..perns, i dont kno u, but i kno what u'r goin thru..me and my bf of almost 3 years broke up this month after 2 months of fighting and drama..some days its like what am i gonna do, and i kinda feel lost..there's no phone call in the mornin, durin the day, or at night to say goodnite...there's no more bein with someone i feel so comfortable with i could do or say anything and kno it wont change anything..and then there's the days where i feel that i can get through it all....its so exhausting, but being around friends def helps..so make sure u make time to go out and have fun..and remember u deserve the best, and if someone isnt making u happy or is not willing to work to make thnings better, theyre not worth ur time..feel better oh n misk - i agree, happiness is the best revenge!

im not single, but just wanted to say, i think you can meet nice guys in a club..i met my bf of 2 1/2 years while he was working at one, and although his work schedule is horrible (he still works in them)..we make it work..i always support him by coming out or bringing my friends out so we can all have a good time...yea obviously there's gonna be the jerks, but jerks are everywhere, not just in clubs..i mean just from what ive seen on this board, most of you guys seem pretty nice, and if you're all out in the clubs, then that means there's plenty of nice people out there...if it does happen give it a chance, i mean you never know...look at clubchic1006..by the way, congrats clubchic..and best wishes

my big FU goes to guys who lie....is it really necessary?why is it guys seem think we cant handle the truth? ive started to think theyre not man enough and dont have the balls to tell us the truth.. oh and i kno the person who lied to me is gonna read this so :blown:

but while alot of girls let themselves be treated like crap, there are still plenty that expect to be treated respectfully and dont put up with less...i think its pathetic when a guy hits a girl, it means he is not a man but a coward..but for that girl to stay with him, she's allowing him to behave like that...too many girls let themselves be treated badly and these guys think they're in the right...and although i do believe some of it has to do with age, stiffler , im 21, and if i feel im being treated inappropriately, i don't stand for it...i think both girls and guys get frustrated at what they often see...sweet girls with jerks, and nice guys with bitches..i'll never understand it...as for that guy cheating on his gf thing, thats a shame, but when something happens in front of your eyes, and yet you choose to overlook it, whatever happens is as much your fault as it is his...i'll also never understand why if someone wants to cheat, they just dont break up, and then they're actions wont be as hurtful to the person dumped..

sexy...couldnt have said it better myself..english is our language and i think its ridiculous that we don't make it official because of concerns of offending other groups of people..they chose to come here, and if they dont like the fact that english is our language, they can go right back home...

vixenfoxxy, theres a difference between just visiting a country and not speaking the language well, and living in a country and not speaking the language...if you live in a country, you are entitled to all kinds of rights, like the right to vote, have your children educated...but because these people dont speak the language, our tax money goes to accomodating them...more spanish teachers in the schools, translators, all govt forms in spanish, etc..i think its ridiculous that in some american schools, children, whose 1st language is not english, learn their subjects in spanish...isnt there some requirement to become a citizen? or do we just let everyone in? as for grandparents and great grandparents that came here from diff countries not speaking english, times are different now, they learned, and made sure their children learned..

shockwave i know what you mean..i was at the dmv today, and i felt like i was in a foreign country...let's just say english was not the language being spoken by most of the people in there...and what bothers me even more, is that its like they're not even encouraged to make english their first language..they can take the test in spanish or whatever other language, get translators, etc...i say we stop making it so easy for them to get by without learning english!

spygirl, you're absolutely right..some people make it their business to interfere and try to mess up other people's lives..i was just so aggravated yesterday i had to vent...it's mdw, and i plan on having myself lots of fun;)

i don't know what it is...why do girls feel the need to cause drama? i kno guys aren't perfect or anything, but c'mon girls, what is the problem? my bf is in the club biz, and i go to a lot of the parties, and certain girls just don't seem to get it..of course i don't let it get in our way, but it's annoying, and it's so unnecessary...if you got something to say to someone, why do you bother making up some false aim screename, just to say a bunch of stuff that i'm not gonna believe anyway? are these girls that desparate? and what drives me nuts is the fact that i then gotta figure out who the person is, so i can tell them exactly what i think of them... ok, sorry cpers, but this just happened to me about an hour ago, and i had to get my frustration out..can anyone else relate?