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does anyone have info on deep? like its address, cover, dress code and if theres a guestlist for tonight...thanx

now if only it were that easy

i know what u mean...my relationship of almost 3 years ended last month...being single again is like being in another world

yea i cry somedays or when i'm reminded about certain things...n the holidays comin up are goin to be weird, i miss his family too..but i knowing that i made the decision since he coldnt give me what i needed to leave kinda makes me feel empowered and respect myself more...either way, the winter is gonna b tough..when it gets all cold n yucky out, u kno the first thing u wanna do is stay in w/someone...guess thats what friends r for..hehe..thanx for all the kind words..it does help talkin n knowin others have been there and gotten thru it..thanx everyone

im from north jersey, essex county u kno, i have found that workin out helps alot..it makes me feel like im doin somethin for myself.. i realize i jus gotta keep doin what im doin and eventually all those thoughts that now pop into my head and make me sad, will go away...so u were where i am a few months ago? n u survived? hehe, u will be my inspiration thanx for the encouragemnt.. perns-sure u can b president of the support group...so when n where is the first meetin? hehe... n about the being single again thing..i thnk its weird for me because the last time i was single i was 18-19..now im 22...its a whole differnt scene now...and im not really lookin forward to all the games that go along with meeting n gettin to kno someone knew..u kno what im talkin bout..givin ur # to someone, then wonderin if hes gonna call..if he does n u hang out, will he call again, what does he think,etc....im very straight forward and honest but i wish more guys were..it would be so much easier

u really do kno what i mean...he was my best friend too, so its like losing 2 at once, and i miss both...i just wish time would go a little quicker, ive gone thru way too many tissues, we're talkin boxes, hehe...jus gotta keep workin thru it i guess..i mean my friends say, u jus gotta get out there, meet new people, etc...but u kno how long its been since ive met/talked to/hung out w/guys as a single girl? its a whole different side of things...anyway it helps to kno others are goin thru it...we need a support group or somethin...hehe

dknybabe, ur 100% right..perns, i dont kno u, but i kno what u'r goin thru..me and my bf of almost 3 years broke up this month after 2 months of fighting and drama..some days its like what am i gonna do, and i kinda feel lost..there's no phone call in the mornin, durin the day, or at night to say goodnite...there's no more bein with someone i feel so comfortable with i could do or say anything and kno it wont change anything..and then there's the days where i feel that i can get through it all....its so exhausting, but being around friends def helps..so make sure u make time to go out and have fun..and remember u deserve the best, and if someone isnt making u happy or is not willing to work to make thnings better, theyre not worth ur time..feel better oh n misk - i agree, happiness is the best revenge!

im not single, but just wanted to say, i think you can meet nice guys in a club..i met my bf of 2 1/2 years while he was working at one, and although his work schedule is horrible (he still works in them)..we make it work..i always support him by coming out or bringing my friends out so we can all have a good time...yea obviously there's gonna be the jerks, but jerks are everywhere, not just in clubs..i mean just from what ive seen on this board, most of you guys seem pretty nice, and if you're all out in the clubs, then that means there's plenty of nice people out there...if it does happen give it a chance, i mean you never know...look at clubchic1006..by the way, congrats clubchic..and best wishes

my big FU goes to guys who lie....is it really necessary?why is it guys seem think we cant handle the truth? ive started to think theyre not man enough and dont have the balls to tell us the truth.. oh and i kno the person who lied to me is gonna read this so :blown:

but while alot of girls let themselves be treated like crap, there are still plenty that expect to be treated respectfully and dont put up with less...i think its pathetic when a guy hits a girl, it means he is not a man but a coward..but for that girl to stay with him, she's allowing him to behave like that...too many girls let themselves be treated badly and these guys think they're in the right...and although i do believe some of it has to do with age, stiffler , im 21, and if i feel im being treated inappropriately, i don't stand for it...i think both girls and guys get frustrated at what they often see...sweet girls with jerks, and nice guys with bitches..i'll never understand it...as for that guy cheating on his gf thing, thats a shame, but when something happens in front of your eyes, and yet you choose to overlook it, whatever happens is as much your fault as it is his...i'll also never understand why if someone wants to cheat, they just dont break up, and then they're actions wont be as hurtful to the person dumped..

sexy...couldnt have said it better myself..english is our language and i think its ridiculous that we don't make it official because of concerns of offending other groups of people..they chose to come here, and if they dont like the fact that english is our language, they can go right back home...

vixenfoxxy, theres a difference between just visiting a country and not speaking the language well, and living in a country and not speaking the language...if you live in a country, you are entitled to all kinds of rights, like the right to vote, have your children educated...but because these people dont speak the language, our tax money goes to accomodating them...more spanish teachers in the schools, translators, all govt forms in spanish, etc..i think its ridiculous that in some american schools, children, whose 1st language is not english, learn their subjects in spanish...isnt there some requirement to become a citizen? or do we just let everyone in? as for grandparents and great grandparents that came here from diff countries not speaking english, times are different now, they learned, and made sure their children learned..

shockwave i know what you mean..i was at the dmv today, and i felt like i was in a foreign country...let's just say english was not the language being spoken by most of the people in there...and what bothers me even more, is that its like they're not even encouraged to make english their first language..they can take the test in spanish or whatever other language, get translators, etc...i say we stop making it so easy for them to get by without learning english!

spygirl, you're absolutely right..some people make it their business to interfere and try to mess up other people's lives..i was just so aggravated yesterday i had to vent...it's mdw, and i plan on having myself lots of fun;)

i don't know what it is...why do girls feel the need to cause drama? i kno guys aren't perfect or anything, but c'mon girls, what is the problem? my bf is in the club biz, and i go to a lot of the parties, and certain girls just don't seem to get it..of course i don't let it get in our way, but it's annoying, and it's so unnecessary...if you got something to say to someone, why do you bother making up some false aim screename, just to say a bunch of stuff that i'm not gonna believe anyway? are these girls that desparate? and what drives me nuts is the fact that i then gotta figure out who the person is, so i can tell them exactly what i think of them... ok, sorry cpers, but this just happened to me about an hour ago, and i had to get my frustration out..can anyone else relate?

i've read a few posts now about people tryin to get into places in seaside with a dup license..mine is a dup, i'm legally 21, so what else would i need to bring, in case there's a prob? i'm prob gettin my license renewed this week, cause it expires at the end of next week, so will that make a diff? thanx

Spygirl, you're right..it just gets annoyin sometimes...i just think guys should settle their beef like men, and grow up..i mean is anyone really afraid of anyone else on here that says, watch out, you dont know who you're messing with?..c'mon people, this is the internet, im gonna beat you up, really doesnt intimidate many people...sure its funny, but mostly pathetic..its summer, everyone should relax...go out..enjoy themselves, wherever and whenver they want, and leave the bs for all the kiddies

i always felt that guys you meet in clubs were just that, that you wouldnt meet your next relationship at a club...but i was so wrong...over 2 years ago, i saw my bf working at this club and couldnt take my eyes off him...all night, back and forth, he'd look at me, i'd look, he'd smile, etc, you get the picture..well never could i have imagined, that flirtation would turn into a 2 1/2 year relationship..so, i'd say girls, dont blow off all guys you meet in a club cause you think nothing will come out of it...it depends on the guy...

i think its a good idea, mike...how many times has everyone been out, late at night, having some drinks, and you're hungry but theres no food? i mean there's diners of course, but you gotta wait until you leave, etc...i think it would be nice, to have food, right there in the place you're at, and some nice food would be an upscale touch..go for it!

i don't understand why so many people on here use this board to fight out their problems with other people...i dont care who you are, or what you do, if you have a problem with someone, whatever happened to confronting them in person and actually doing something about it and trying to resolve it...guys, of all people, i always thought, never talked sh-- about people...they would bring it to your face....that doesnt seem to happen on cp and its quite sad...how old are all of you? does acting like middle schoolers make you all feel big and cool? more important? who cares, someone you don't like throws a new party, whatever..is it really worth your time, going back and forth with each other? i think all the bs i've just read, makes every one of you look bad..but thats just my opinion...and to my knowledge i don't have any problems with anyone on here, so if you're gonna respond, go ahead, but leave the bs out of it..

i would have never and never would cheat on my bf...i have always thought that if someone wants to go outside the relationship, they need to have the balls to say so and end it...this way,sure the dumped person is hurt, but not as hurt as he/she would be later finding out they'd been cheated on...as for the hooking up w/someone not single...i have never knowingly done so, there was only one time i hooked up with a guy, finding out later that night, by his gf's friends that he has a gf...i wouldnt have hooked up with him had i known...i know girls that dont care if a guy has a gf, and it makes me sick...have a little respect for yourself and for other girls!!!!

we should have a support group or something...hehe...im so not in the mood to do anything..i type a page, talk to some people, type another page, watch some tv...ive got such bad hw habits

ive got so much to do i dont even know where to start...you can tell im procrastinating, im posting on cp, rather than finishing all the papers i have due this week and next, as well as study for finals next week..someone help me!!!

my BIG fu goes to all those girls out there who got nothing better to do with their time than cause drama...grow up!!!! oh and one more fu goes to all my professors for giving us all these papers to write in addition to all the studying we have to do for finals...dont they remember what being a student was like??

there are only a couple of times in my life when i was more drunk than i was last nite...i had a great time, but by the time i was ready to go home, my bf practically had to carry me to the car...all day today i felt like crap...i keep saying ill never drink again after last nite, but that wont last long...i think i will be able to stay away from the ketel though