clubbincutie

nepples...good for you..go for it...theres nothing wrong with goin after somehting you want..besides, some guys can be really slow when it comes to taking hints or stuff like that

i'll start off..im taken, 2 years and counting...jus curious as to what everyone else's situations were..

oh my god! i dont know what it was about last week, but it sucked...me and my bf had a terrible week..he was busier than usual with work , and i was having a tough time cause my grandma died..we got into a huge fight saturday, i went over his house, cleared out my drawer, even though i had no intention of leaving..but we worked it all out...i guess we were both on edge all week and not being able to talk made it worse...anyway, thank god everything is all better

well i personally believe there's nothing better than waking up next to the one i love..and i love falling alseep with his arms around me...its sux when he cant be here sometimes, but it just gives me something to look forward to

hey whats up..im from northern jersey, and hang out at the same places, usually abyss or rbar

6th ave in ortley

full time student at montclair state univ..only 1 year left

you're right...and there have already been the girls that try, even after knowing about me, to come between us...i mean and they start some sick, twisted drama, i mean flirting is one thing, but tryin to mess up two peoples lives for is something i cant stand..so its like i dont kno which of the girls to trust..alot of the ones he works with are really nice to me, so im nice to them, but i dont know if ill ever be able to fully trust them b/c of what has happened you know... ceotter, you know besides workin at some clubs, he also bartends, so ive definitely seen him talk to girls and girls talk to him in ways i dont exactly enjoy, but like you and your bf, its good money for him, so i understand what he has to do..it does help that he comes home to me though.. you know with so many of us out there, we should start a support group..hehe...

its nice to know there are other people who are/were in my shoes...i think it can be good as long as there's alot of understanding..i know on my part, i just want to support him cause its something he loves being involved in, but also want to be a part of it too, so i can share it with him, you know..

are alot of you guys from the board goin? cause i really wanted to go, n thought i would go with my bf, but now he's sayin he'll prob b workin there that night, so wont have time for me..i never heard dt before and really wanted to check it out...

i'm matty's gf..i met you at rbar a while back

i agree with most of the stuff you guys posted...quest...you're absolutely right, it takes 2 mature people, as you can't have the jealousy stuff take over the relationship or any of that..maybe my prob is not so much with the club business, but the guys and girls that frequent the clubs that throw themselves at people without showing any respect for themselves or anyone else..i mean i used to act different in a club when i was single, but i NEVER behaved the way i see some of these people (girls and guys) behave..its disgusting..i dunno..cpflex, i believe i know you, carl right?

i was just curious if anyone else on here is involved in a relationship with someone working in the clubs...my boyfriend of over 2 years now, continues to work in the business, and ive found that that line of work brings with it its own issues..what do you guys think of all the drama, and pettiness and behind the scenes bs?

towels? we got plenty, hehe...its my cousins house, but everyone is always coming and goin..its like open 24/7...people just sho up...even when the bedrooms are all full, you got people on the porch, on the couch and floor in the front room..except if u get stuck with the front room, it can be hard getting to sleep, cause you got all the people walking home from the surf club at all hours of the night..its hilarious..but the best thing bout it is the food...no matter where i am down the shore, i always come back to the house to eat, they cook all day n night...and good food too...if i didnt take summer classes i think id be there all summer..but im usually down just on the weekends until august...does anyone else notice how when you have a house down the shore, it seems like someone you know is always in the area and just had to stop by? of course that is all part of the fun, but i just want to see if it happens to anyone else

Ortley...have a house on 6th ave..a couple blocks from the beach..i cant wait

im talkin bout the kids that go down there to cause trouble, start fights on the boardwalk and stuff like that...me and my friends didnt do that..twice when i was on the boardwalk last summer there were fights, and im talking knives and all...that to me is trashy

this thread brings back the memories...me and my friends used to do the same things..i have so many pics of us with people we didnt kno on the boardwalk...but it was all good fun...now theres too many trashy kids hangin out down there

Oh my god! I go to MSU too, and have a couple classes that get out late, and I hate walking to the parking lot after. I always wind up parking like miles away from any buildings..it sux...n they make us pay 50 for that? i refuse to pay...they can kiss my a##..im sorry sorry it happened... BRIAN1500- i soo agree with you..the only time i ever see those private parking lot people is when they're writing tix...one day i saw about 4 of them in the parking lot...so basically MSU pays these jerks jus to write us tickets..its absolutely ridiculous...im so glad i only have one more year

i've never been there on a friday or saturday, only sundays..dave and tony always play great music..its a good place to come to close out the weekend..

doesn't really make a diff if u think im lady like...and by the way, who are you? everyone now knows who i am, and pretty much everyone else is upfront with who they are...i mean i could care less what ur opinion is, actually i thnk its funny, but id still like to know who's hiding behind it..so lets hear it..who are you???

AS FOR CLUBCUTIE, I'M SURE YOU ARE A NICE GIRL, BUT YOU DON'T NEED TO TELL US YOUR BANGIN' MATTIE, IT'S NOT LADY-LIKE................. i was referring to an earlier post when someone made a reference bout my bf bangin someone else..so i simply stated who i was to clear anything up..i wouldnt just come out and say it...as for being lady-like, i am...this is a message board, it has no reflection of who i am as a person..its jus a bunch of people talkin bout one club or another, either criticizing or supporting a party...and like 90% of it is bull...which is why its so funny reading all these posts...everyone needs to relax and enjoy the clubs that they like and remember that none of the stuff said on here is meant to be taken so seriously... :)

PJ i believe it was you doin the biting..wut's up with leaving bite marks on my man? he's got like 3 black n blues on his shoulder..do u always bite people when ur drunk? anyway, we had a great time last nite too..im jus glad everyone got home ok

theres that hermaphrodite word again..obsess much? and there are people on this board who i have met in person that know im not a teen..so give it up..freak:laugh2: :laugh2:

ahh, so you know how to use those big words...hermaphrodite..ooh...i think thats pretty funny..if you got a prob with my name, thats too bad..cause i like it..u seem to be really obsessed with this hermaphrodite stuff...i guess ur just a freak..

my name is sonny, im his gf..he used my computer to make a post, without realizing it would show up under my cp name...which he then cleared up in another post..cant u read?