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i will be there...lookin forward to it cause it will be my first time hearing dt....see you all tomorrow!

montclair state

i never attended rutgers, but used to stay over there alot, and would park on the side streets wherever i could find a space, which usually took like 15mins...i got so many tix i stopped counting...i dont understand why college officials, all of them, dont put more thought into issues like parking

the 1 bad thing about M.S.U. : the parking...it seems that even if i get to school 15 mins early, by the time i find a spot and then haul a** to class, im still late...oh and those parking lot people writing tickets all the time sux too..why they expect us to pay to park where we end up parking is ridiculous!

it's def worth checkin out...me and my friends have yet to be disappointed...it doesnt get overcrowded, but is comfortable, plenty of people to chill, dance, or relax...the drinks r good, bartenders are friendly, music is good, a good time all around

quoth - i am sorry to hear about your cousin's husband..i hope everything turns out ok and best wishes to your family...i was in your position a month ago...my grandmother, who had her problems, but in general was healthy. had a heartattack on a sunday night...she was rushed to the hospital..it looked bad the first night and next day, but then doctors said she was doing better...she had to have surgery on her liver or somethng, but they wanted her to get a little stronger..i didnt go see her, cause my dad told me it was best to wait until after the surgery...i still remember it like yesterday...that wednesday i was at the mall with my friend all day..i get home, ask my dad when i can bring the card i made for her..he looked at me for a second, and i coulda swore he was tearing, and said your grandmother passed away today...the first thing i said, was why didnt you tell me? i was so mad that all day had gone by, and he never told me..i never got to say goodbye..she was the only grandparent i had the chance to know, all had died by the timei was born..and with my mother out of the picture, we were really close...to this day, a month later, i still have trouble dealing...i got behind in school, i gained a few pounds and got depressed you know...im starting to get a grip now, with the help of my bf and other family members...but its hard..like we're still going through all the stuff in her house, and pictures, and theres not a worse feeling in the world...im so sorry to have written such a long post...guess i needed to get some stuff off my chest too...sorry everyone...

i think that in the end your heart prevails..but i def realize that the mind has powers to interfere...no matter how much interference ur mind tries to cause, i just think that your mind can't tell you how you feel...it can tell you how you should feel, but we all know thats not the way things work sometimes, sometimes we feel things for people we shouldnt, etc...as we get older i think the mind plays a more practical part, cause you start thinking long-term, and can i see myself with this person 5 years from now, 10 years from now, that kinda stuff...

i totally agree with you...i couldnt have said it better.. it may be hard to leave a relationship that you've been in for a long time or even a short time, but i can't understand why some girls, including one of my best friends, choose to stay with guys who treat them like crap...shes pretty, smart, great personality, but for some reason she can never be alone, she'd rather stay witht his guy who insults her all the time, never takes her out by herself, he's so verbally abusive i want to smack him...but she "loves" him...it makes me sick...

i dont kno if this will help much, but the last time was there was 8 yrs ago...we stayed in nassau at the raddisson...we loved it...everything was great....just thinking about it makes me want to go again

RE: aww i hope you feel better sweetie!! thanx...i still cant go out, i feel like im in prison, and my friends all headed down to ac this weekn, my bf is workin as usual, and im bored outta my mind..someone help me please!!!!

im into the whole fairytale thing.. if i had the money..i'd do it over in england, on one of those big country estates or an old castle estate, with the huge grand ballrooms..everyone would be flown over and we'd make a whole long weekend out of it..and my second choice would be an exotic island, either in the caribbean or even somewhere like the greek islands, b/c they're so romantic...the music part has already been claimed by my bf as his dept so i dont know bout that part...

i think it was jus a mixup cause they decided not to do advanced tix, right? so now its just guestlist or at the door?

i think the worst part is boredom...all my friends are out, my bf is working, and im stuck at home..

rbar is in colonia...ive only been there on sundays...the drinks are good...music is good...lounge type atmosphere..everyone is friendly..i think they even have a website

i agree...today really sux..i just got home from the doctor, who thinks i have strep throat...i cant eat anything cause it hurts, i missed my classes today which means more hw this weekend, and its looks so nice i want to be outside...sorry for the complaining, but i had to get it out..

i used to be really nutty the week before mine...sometimes i didnt even realize it..sometimes i feel bad that i put my bf thru it, but then again, its not my fault my body does it, you know..but ive learned to curb my emotions durin this time, and it has made it easier on both of us...and i second that horny part...i thought i was the only one

thats the sweetest thing...i still get that feelin in my stomach every time my bf says i love you, even after 2 years, he still can give me goosebumps with his smile...i love it

i thought they were shootin the sequel in Montclair...

i'm from caldwell

i cant stand it either...its so rude and disrespectful...and you're right about the gossip...even when people know you're together, some still like to cause drama...and its hard to deal with sometimes..and you're right these guys need to realize the drama that comes upon us...i dont think they fully understand how catty other girls can be, especially when it comes to guys or something they want...i accept that he's doing something he loves, ive met all the people he works with, but only a couple of the girls actually will come up and say hi and stuff when they see me...so i treat them with respect too..but the others, what is their problem?

sexyinthecity, i kno what you mean...i think that it doesnt help that we all kno how some single people act, girls and guys of course, some dont care if someone is taken, they go after them anyway, which is something ive never understood..sure i kno it takes two, but i think we all agree that there are some low people, who even when knowin someone is taken will continue their sh**..i mean when a girl, who knows your someone's girlfriend cause youve been introduced as such, throws herself at your man right in front of you, c'mon, thats just pathetic and rude...theres no reason for that kinda stuff...and while i trust my bf, its still frustrating that these people have no respect for us or our relationship...anyway alot of you guys and girls seem pretty normal, have any of you gotten together? just curious

cpflex..i see where you're comin from..i think thats part of the problem...alot of people see what goes on in the industry, on both ends, girls and guys, and therefore may be reluctant to get involved with someone or cause them to constantly worry bout their relationship because of what they see...its hard...it takes work, but what good things dont..people in the industry jus have to realize that their other halves may have all the trust in the world, but that still doesnt mean we are always going to be thrilled with certain situations...i also think that being completely upfront and open about things is the best way to keep things on track

uh oh...nepples, the guy you're going after is with someone? if so, i change my original statement..its not cool to go after someone elses guy/girl...but if he's single, then by all means, go get him!

we all pretty much agree that it def takes understanding on our part...but they need to understand too...they need to understand that if the situation was reversed, they'd prob feelin alot of the same things we are(were)...and more importantly, theres only so much understanding, they also have to be respectful of our feelings...talking to other girls is fine...but there has to a line drawn...

yea what's the deal with "all girls"? of course i knw a bunch of girls that are sneaky, cheat and lie...but i also know a lot of guys that do the same...goes both ways...