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I am matty's gf and the only one he bangs..im not underage, im 21...and hes had more than 15 minutes..hes had a few years...hes not cocky, arrogant or self-absorbed..he works very hard to make the parties fun for everyone, teens and adults...what's your beef anyway? i think some of you people need to grow up..all this bs reminds me of what went on in high school, and even then, i dont thnk it was as bad as this...its an online message board...if someone doesnt like someone or something else, who cares..i mean does it hurt ur feelings or something? i mean anyone who takes anything on here seriously is jus sad..i mean sydnie, u plug jay demarco's cd in every one of ur posts as a cd to get "now"..please, the kid sux..besides being a complete ass..but im not gonna sit here, posting a bunch of messages whining about it..people need to lighten up and learn to laugh things off

sprincess, were you there this sunday?

rbar is def a place to check out..me n my friend were there again this sunday..had a great time..great music..drinks r good...cute guys..we'll be back

oops, damn auto logon... that last post was from The MC Matty C!!!!! www.StateofMind.tvThe MC Matty C

so you think that a mailing list is what makes a teen night??? WRONG!!! its structure, word of mouth, and your hosts and dj's!!! also, its how good you are to your employees... (it also helps to stay sober) Our teen nights are successful because we do it right... if zero mail was sent out, we still would be on top!!! and thats the way it is for every party i have ever run... from making the back room @ bunka better than the front room on a teen night, (guess thats why you would hide the mic...sorry i stole the spotlight) to an insaine night at abyss, to every one-off i've ever done... thats how we do it!!! as to the comment "dont ever sleep" is that a threat? i dont sleep, ever... my door is unlocked, so anytime you wanna stop bye and let me know what that ment! bottom line, i posted a statement at first...no out of line comments... but i guess some people are on edge and nervous about their places of business... maybe there's a lot of stress there for them... but this all got blown out of proportion... the only point i need to make was i hate disrespectful people, and i will prevail over them in the end... well im just gonna laugh to myself about our success now... I KNOW YOU HAVE MY NUMBER, YOU'VE USED IT FOR BS BEFORE!!! so if you have a problem, use it now!!! thanks to those who actually made me feel like family... See you all at the grand finalie to my b-day week!!!

i may have seen you..theres always so many people that he works with there that he talks to, i try to keep the names straight..i just dont think i was ever introduced to you...havent been there since new years eve and that was a crazy night..anyway, as for being the only one..are u sure that wasnt in ur dreams?

its ok..i know that some of the girls that go there want him, and thats fine, cause they're just little girls and our relationship is strong..but ive had drama with some of them b4 and dont want anymore... and nickymidnite, no matty is not all yours, he's ALL MINE!! i don't think i ever met you, but i did meet lou when me and matty were at one of the parties.

i don't know who you are..but i'm matty c's gf and whoever this kerri sl*t is can take her a** elsewhere..

oooh that hurt...why dont u just focus on whatever club u work for? was it roxy? i cant remember what u said..anyway, im sure most would agree here, that ur opionions or wutever u want to call them, are just pathetic and completely biased..so shut up..no one wants to hear u.

i LOVE Bad Boys!!Great movie..I was at my bfs house this weekend and it came on. He loved it too, and now wants to buy the DVD...we also went to see the new movie, Supertroopers...it was hilarious..it had us cracking up the whole time...def a must see

i saw the title of this thread n then i saw who started it...n i laughed...i remember this is the same guy, trifecta, who posted how he is gonna b the tru voice, posting the truth about parties...blah blah blah..but it seems like every post he makes its about world...do u think we're that stupid? give up already

i kno exactly wut u mean...me n my friends have talked bout it ever since we were old enough to start goin out to the city and clubs..even if ur w/a few girls, some guys will still try to mess w/u..the worst is when they're in a big drunken group...i have to stick up for the good guys, they are out there..i can remember a couple times, when we were confronted by some not so nice guys, some real gentlemen stepped in..im not all into that damsel in distress crap, though..cause i kno if someone comes at me, im gonna go down kickin, hittin, screamin..anything..and i always stick up for myself n my friends..i hate when guys think they can get away w/lewd, rude, and unwanted behavior..i think ur best bet is to be assertive..but those kickboxing classes are really fun too, n they could be very useful

i thought i was the only one..i go to school in jersey too and had classes today too

i agree with unclebuc about the lights..i loved the lights!

thanx for the info...i'll have to check a fri nite out...we went to rbar the last sunday in january..got there about 12am i think..there were plenty of people in there, but not so to the point where there was no room to breathe, you know..i have to say i really liked the music...supposedly the djs alternate sundays, but whoever was there that sunday was great..i just like it cause its so comfortable and the couch n stuff were so cute...even though i have a bf, i noticed quite a few good lookin guys, so my single friend was even more excited she came..anyway, thats about it..i would say check it out

how is r bar on fridays..i went on a sunday n it was cool..very laid back, but good music...it was a good time..was curious how the other nites were

well my bf has both..a new truck and an apt..its a basement, but you dont need to go thru the house to get to it..besides, hes got everything down there, so its not like we need to go upstairs..im so jealous of his closet though, its huge, bigger than mine..and because i'm loud during sex, he even insulated it..hehe

wow...great topic..i agree with all the stuff that's been said...even before i knew i was in love with my bf, something felt diff. dont know how to explain it but anyway..i guess for me its being able to say anything to him without being embarassed, do anything in front of him without being embarassed..wanting to share everything with him..he knows all my little phrases n i know his, and we use them as our own...we know what the other is gonna say before they say it...we're fine spending nights at home watchin a movie but also don't mind each other spending time with their friends..seeing each other in sweatpants/pjs/when we first wake up in the morning, and still thinking, damn he/she is so cute...becoming parts of each others families..sticking thru it all, (my bf has been there when i needed surgery, when i needed braces in the middle of our relationship, any hard or stressful times)..he's the last voice i hear at night, i couldnt go to bed without his "goodnight honey, sweet dreams, i love you." ahh, it makes my stomach feel fuzzy just typing it..i kno, im mushy..and he's the first thing i thnk of in the morning...i thnk the most important factor is that- i kno i can spend the rest of my life with him and don't need or want anyone else..we plan our future, and anytime i thnk bout what im doin a couple years from now, he's always part of the picture..alrite, i could go on forever, but ill stop here..

well, my bf thinks v-day is just a commercial holiday..but i say who cares if its one more day we can celebrate our love..i kno, im mushy...anyway, i went to his house afterschool..he had beautiful roses for me and such a sweet card...i made him chocolate covered strawberries, and bought him the wine glasses he wanted...we went out to dinner at a nice local rest., and then came home, cuddled, then headed down to this club/bar his friend was djiing at...we had a few drinks, did some dancing, came home, even though i was beyond tired, had great sex, and went to bed...

i dont know anything bout any of that, cause this was the first time ive been to world..i saw alot of people in there and throughout the nite and the wasnt complaining or anything of that nature that i could see..the people that dont like i could understand because everyone has their own taste..but this guy trying to call me a promoter, when i know absolutely nothing bout the business, except for all the fliers i get handed at school...and then him claiming to be some new neutral voice bout clubs, when in reality hes the one who sounds like the promoter or else why is he suggesting i join his promoting team..all i was tryin to say was there were plenty of people there who looked like they were having a good time..me and my friends did..yea they need to fix a couple of things..which i said the first time..but my night was good...simple as that

its not my fault you can't intelligently express your views with the correct spelling..and you must be blind..i said it was the first time i had ever been there..if im a promoter, wouldnt i have been there a lot more..yea i think so..im 21 for that matter, and have been to most of the clubs in the city..as for your suggestions, who left you the authority on clubs? my clubbing experiences are well-rounded but i never claimed to be a hard core clubber or anything...i dont want to move out of jersey just yet, i would like to finish my degree first, but wouldnt move to the city anyway..as for pathetic, that couldnt even begin to describe you

what makes you think you're the authority on events in the city? and who's to say you'll be truthful and accurate? just supposed to take your word for it? i mean look at the way you've already handled yourself on here..i personally won't be taking anything you say seriously.

actually you're wrong..i just dont thnk the place is as bad as you're trying to make it out to be (as a promoter from a competing club, just admit it, we all know you are)..it was my first time there..yea i saw things that weren't done right, but im sure as the party gets going and they hear the feedback the necessary changes will be made..but other than that, i had a good time..and there weren't any major complaints from anyone i was with either...

well since i dont know if you are calling me an amateur or immature i cannot respond to your comment

well there's an rbar in colonia too...since its only been open about a year i think, maybe thats why theres all this confusion..but anyway, it's a good time..ill be goin back in a week or two, im so broke its not even funny