sirdante

hey i think i know that tara girl ------------------ i love music!

i'm thinking of heading up to montreal for a party there (BT is headlining). but new york will probably be our destination. lol: Ty Webb! -sirdante a.k.a. Mitch Cumstein ------------------ i love music!

everyone should watch the "history of LSD" on the history channel next time they show it. it is amazing how history repeats itself. in the "History of LSD" they do a whole segment on how the media contributed the hysteria by trying to scare everybody using the same tactics they use today against the "hug drug." BTW,who the fuck calls it the "hug drug" other than news reporters and DEA suits? the funniest part of all of the media BS is that they often talk about a drug use "epidemic." they are sooo right here we are 30 years into the LSD "epidemic" and the whole fuckin' world is trippin'. right?!? ------------------ i love music!

now that's the spirit! ------------------ i love music!

supergreg is that you?!? ------------------ i love music!

lol. brandie, you are a real bad-ass. will you marry me? ------------------ i love music!

wow! bunch of oldsters. i can't talk, i remember when rolling on e was called tripping on x. ------------------ i love music!

she cooks?!? ------------------ i love music!

actually, my fault, i led you all astray. you guessed slightly wrong. these two people didn't hook up (as far as i know), its worse than that. they're falling in love or something. i wished they just fucked so that i could be really mad. whatever happens is simply meant to be. i'll have no problems with being free! i was only kidding about not being nice anymore. i'll always be nice. especially to the people i meet in the clubs. we're usually just there to have fun. you are all nice too, thanx for the sympathy. ------------------ i love music!

alright here's my bummer of the day: one time last year my gf and i went clubbing, just the two of us, and met some decent people. we would see them again on occasion and we'd meet up whenever we went down to NYC. my gf and one of the guys have been email buddies for a year and guess what? well, go ahead guess. yep, that's right. and to think, i introduced them! i've got to stop being so nice. ------------------ i love music!

you're about as ugly as they come, so i hope i never see your racist shit-ass in any of the clubs. [This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-21-2000).]

many thanks. ------------------ i love music!

while re-reading my above post, i noticed that i said "if the nub area is soft." well, the nub area is *always* soft. it does however, get erect. unlike a penis, however, it usually requires high arousal to actually get fully erect. notice its maximum hardness when you make her come with your finger. (and you *will* make her come if you use the above techniques, bub). good luck. maybe next time i'll tell you what to do with your TOUNGE! [This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 08-21-2000).]

i'll assume you are serious and need some proven advice: the best way to touch a girl can be summed up in one word: GENTLY! while making out, start touching her down there by GENTLY stroking her inner thigh. lightly touch the pubis area only when you think she's ready for that. if its dry when you get there (try to GENTLY slide your middle finger between the lips), she isn't ready. she could be nervous or slow to relax. simply go back to just making out and try this step again in a few moments. otherwise, carry on: with GENTLE touch, move your middle finger up her lips and towards that nub at the top. you'll probably bring some of that sweet moisture with you. DO NOT SLIDE YOUR ROUGH FINGER(S) ACCROSS THAT NUB. it will be dry and your first encounter with it should not be a rough scraping. simply give one sweet GENTLE caress (a single circular revolution or a slight press) with the moistened tip of your middle finger. if the "nub" area is soft, then she isn't aroused enough. go back to step ONE (the making out, touching the thigh part). otherwise, mr. smoothie, you're on the way... altough that firm little nub may or may not be the actual clitoris (it has a protective hood), thats the target zone. unfortunately, now it gets tricky. you need to caress that area, but not overstimulate it. if you place the heel of your hand on her body and GENTLY press and release the spot with the very tip of your middle finger, you will be stimuliting her the way she probably does when she plays with herself. do this as GENTLY as possible, and since your goal is to please your partner, don't be afraid to ask "does this feel ok?" since she'll answer "yes" either way, the answer you want is a "[breathless] yes" or some such stuff. if you get that on the first try, you're a natural. if not, maybe you've missed the spot (go back a step and try again) or maybe you are not doing it GENTLY enough. there is also the possibility that you need to apply *slightly* more pressure, but this is less likely. also, if your girl is nervous, she may not show how aroused she is really becoming. look for the physical signs, especially the wetness of her slot and the firmness of her clitoris. if you do a bit of vocalizing and moaning yourself she'll likely respond with the same. (please DONT talk crude-- dirty talk is for an occasion other than this-- ok?!?) if you get into the groove with the press-release thing, pressure, motion, and speed can be increased according to her reaction. this will make her happy. unfortunately, to master this requires strict disciple, attention, and *years* of practice on your part. so, newbie, just stick to the basics. the GENTLE press and release is the most foolproof way of touching the clit, but a GENTLE circular motion works well for *some* girls. once you start working her button, don't take your hand away to shove fingers inside her or anything like that. spurning the button is just a bad kind of tease that could get you into big trouble. here's another helpful tip: once she really gets going, lift your hand up and without trying to alter the gentle press-release, use some wrist action. the difference between the way we guys naturally touch a woman and the way she has learned to touch herself involves this slight extra motion. i could go on all day. the female body is truely the most complex and fascinating thing on earth. try what i've said and remember: GENTLY, GENTLY, GENTLY. ------------------ i love music! ------------------ i love music!

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i'd love to contribute to this discussion with some erudite words of wisdom but i can only say-- FUCK THE PIGS!!! ALL OF THE LAWYERS, THE MEDIA, AND THE REST OF THE ELITIST ASSHOLES SHOULD DO US ALL A FAVOR AND JUST DIE! DIE! DIE PIGS DIE! DIE! DIE! DIE!* [panting] thank you. * - or they can just quit their stupid jobs and host parties at their cool mansions ------------------ i love music!

*HUG* ------------------ i love music!

i am referring to vinyl. they threw everybody OUT of the place. i don't have anything to worry about personally. they sell my drugs, alcohol and caffeine, at the clubs. ------------------ i love music!

damn it. let me rant: i drive down from MA at least once/month to go clubbing in your fine city. boston sucks so hard and the people here have pissed me off so much that i won't go clubbing in btown. NOW i am starting to WORRY about going to manhattan clubs. i mean, if the fucking pigs throw me out of a place that i drove 2.5 hours t get to, i'll turn into one ugly masshole! fuck these police raids. LET THE PEOPLE DANCE!!! ------------------ i love music!

thanx bros. i know everything will eventually be fine (time heals all wounds and all of that). i've gone thru this b4. i guess now is the time to enjoy my new freedom!!! no more wallowing in self pity. its monday and i feel better already. by friday i'll be ready to tear it up at twilo! ------------------ i love music!

funny, i just talked to an old friend of mine and we got around to the subject of a particular ex-friend of both of ours. turns out the ex-friend screwed us both over. chances are that he's probably messed with alot of other people too. its a fact of life: some people are simply scumbags. whatever u do, don't take it personally. ------------------ i love music!

i just broke it off with my gf of 5+ years. now i'm at *work* bc i dont want to go home to her. i'm sitting in this stupid office building, surfing around, and trying to avoid hoping we can still work it out. i'm telling you this bc all my in-the-flesh friends are probably sick of hearing about it (from both of us). feel free to flame me, pity me, ignore me, or whatever. anything will feel better than this.

i thought of this the other day: music is so much better than everything b/c MUSIC IS NEVER EVIL. music fits every philosophical and common definition of "good." music can do no harm. music that sucks is not even evil. it is simply not music. music that hurts your ears is not evil. it is not the tune that hurts, but the volume. music is the greatest good! music is beyond love. (i love music, i don't music love). music is beyond reality. music is intrinsically and teleologically good-- which is just a philosopher's way to say that music all-around kicks-ass!!! ------------------ i love music!

fuck the pigs. bunch of assholes who aren't any better than u or me. they just get paid to do stupid shit. they always try to shut down the clubs and bust the owners/promoters b/c they find drugs there. does that mean we should shut down the government b/c of all of the dealers in central park?!? ------------------ i love music!