sirdante

back in my younger days (waaaaay back in the 90s) i used to live in las vegas. one of the people i used to party with was a harley-riding, head-banging, older chick who also happened to work in one of nevada's many legal brothels. one night in the front seat of an 88 caddy deville i had to ask myself the same questions you now have. fortunately, i was too drunk to ponder the situation too long. equally fortunate, she always had, and used, condoms (job security ya know). dont question things. if u have a problem with her life choices, its your problem. why give yourself problems? just have fun. as long as you are meticulously careful you should be ok. BTW, the "pro" was no more expert than any of the several fine amateurs with whom i have had sexual relations. ------------------ i love music!

u have two choices: 1) accept that u r a shallow individual (at least for now) and go with it. enjoy chasing hotties and focus only on appearances. 2) stop being shallow and keep the girl. looks are not important to long term success in a relationship. i am not suggesting one or the other. its up to u. ------------------ i love music!

its our scene. the whole concept of our club-culture/sub-culture spins around this formula: good looks + good music = good vibe while we look for this good vibe we become obsessed with shallow things: we go to the gym so that we look better when we dance and we buy new clothes so we can attract more people like us. our scene is primarily focused on these shallow things. the deeper stuff, like this monogomy issue, become secondary. while the rest of the world settles for marriage and family, we, the party people, just live weekend-to-weekend. i know if i had married my last GF and we had a bunch of kids keeping us from ever leaving the house we could have stayed together. instead, surrounded by the shallow scene we adopted, we split up. we separated in search of more-- more lust, more pretty faces, more vibe. you choose your own path in this life. dont choose the clubbing scene if you seek manogomy. ------------------ i love music!

since u r asking this question i think that the answer is prob "yes, it is too risky for u to try this." i think open and/or swinging sex is only for a certain type of person and that type of person already knows if they r that way or not. tho if u want to experiment, pls do 2 things. first, think thru everything privately-- or with us on this board . second, talk over everything w the bf. let him know exactly what u do and do not want him to do. let me tell u from personal experience that there is nothing worse that going down on the gf's female lover at a key moment and suddenly having the gf dramatically leave the bedroom saying, ironically, "if u 2 want to do this, go right ahead. i dont mind!" if she had told me to keep my hands off, i would have let them finish on their own! ------------------ i love music!

cheers "to all my friennnds!" ------------------ i love music!

u know whats funny? i personally mix better when i throw a brand new track on the deck. i guess i start to out-think myself once i get too familiar w a song. ive been working on relaxing and just letting it flow. ----------------- i love music! [This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 09-07-2000).]

everyone- the door people at the clubs ive been to in NYC act like good friends compared 2 the assholes up here in boston. if u think paris is bad, try going to lansdowne street sometime. ------------------ i love music!

welcome to the club. but, dude, we will get that in NYC, or MA, too. it all depends on where we hang out. fuck em. let em try to mess with a city-boy, "faggot," mass-hole like me. ill shove my fluvogs wicked far down their redneck throats... jk. their ignorance is too pitiful for action. my favorite comeback: "im the faggot?!? youre the one looking at me, asshole!" really, its not like i get dressed up for the viewing pleasure of some *guy*. im a ladies man! three times ive been called a "fag" to my face. twice i was in the company of georgeous women. the third time was last weekend when some roid-boy with a not-so-macho earring and a too-tight white tee shirt was trying to impress alpha-male manliness upon his attendant beta-bitch boyfriends by kicking me in the face while i was down on the ground. can you say "closet homosexuals?" ------------------ i love music!

lol. where do u get this stuff? ------------------ i love music!

i stopped working out for 18 months. what a big mistake! if u work out, the best advice ever is: dont stop. i am back at the gym for regular cardio and 2-4 weight training sessions / week. i feel and look better already. fortunately, even when i wasnt working out, i stayed lean and mean. its easy to be lazy, but its even easier to do the little things that keep u fit. eat in moderation. take the stairs, not the elevator. dont sit if u can stand. dont drive when u can walk. dont always try to get the closest parking spot. simple really, unless u have some issues that cause u to overeat (then its not so simple). ------------------ i love music!

the theories on pheremones suggest that subtle scent recognition helps us discern between close cousins and distant relatives. i like these theories. they go a long way in explaining certain attractions. did u ever wonder why u view certain friends more like siblings than fuck-mates despite how much u love them? ------------------ i love music!

i heard somewhere (i think it was mixmag or some other periodical i read at the book store) that the average club is [some number] of decibles loud. ear damage occurs after only 8 minutes of exposure. sorry im not accurate with my 411. can anybody provide more? ------------------ i love music!

practice it every way u can think of. the more ways u try, the more skills u will develop. ------------------ i love music!

SNO-CONES!!! ------------------ i love music!

i am hopelessly heterosexual. women make me insane so sometimes i almost wish i were gay but... hairy asses?!? *puke* ------------------ i love music! [This message has been edited by sirdante (edited 09-07-2000).]

its all about the lawyers... get one. ------------------ i love music!

two cannibals are having a feast. one cannibal looks over at the other and says, "i dont know about you, but i am having a ball!" ------------------ i love music!

STFU & get off this board. we dont need your racist shit here, fuckhead. ------------------ i love music!

WELCOME!!! WHY ARE WE YELLING? shhh... ------------------ i love music!

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i went out to drink at a sleazy bar the other day. after last call, when the lights came on and the desperate last chance for pick-ups began, i noticed two women searching the crowd. they looked a bit scared as several dudes tried to paw them on their way out of the door. the girls looked like regulars, so i asked them "do you ever get frightened walking out of this place at this time of night?" one of them immediately answered "yes." She stopped searching the crowd, looked at me, and continued, "actually i do but..." i looked at her, waiting for her answer. she hesitated and then told me, "i am working. i get $100 for fellatio." she disappeared into the swelling crowd. i was floored, thinking, "did i just hear that?" the world is a crazy place.

somebody had better call god, bc i think one of his angels has escaped. ------------------ i love music!

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lol. here's a scary observation: the marketing campaign for most of the 2001 SUVs focuses upon SUVs as "performance" vehicles. the ads are trying to appeal to the speed demon/ control freak side of the people who drive them. the marketing people know that the avg SUV driver is a parent who owns the beast bc owning a mini-van seems wimpy. the scariest commercial ive seen so far is the one where the mazda SUV is racing with a pack of miatas as the narrator brags about all of the horsePOWER and superior CONTROL. fact is, an SUV is one of the most dangerous vehicles on the road and any parent who drives it like a sports car is only putting their family's life (and ours) at risk. ------------------ i love music!

good shit, man. ------------------ i love music!