In my case i go out so much that the board found me. I've been recieving emails from way back. I also work most of the time. i have been to places and not run into anyone. I'm sure some of you have seen me and i def. want to meet. when i asked people at some of the places that where on the board if they're down with CNYC they said WHO. Even at the Breffni??(sorry about the spelling) where there was about 30 people in the whole place(from what i remember) people still said no. i know that i asked someone that was down, because the person i was with said i asked people that where with ever click, who later posted on the board that they where there and infact where dancing right next to me. i'm egyptian and very easy to pick out especially when getting my groove on. so if there is a way to find out who everyone is, i'm for it. believe me it would make my life easyer since i have never gone anywhere sober???????????????????????????????????