giving head, for me, used to be a bigger deal than having sex with a guy. but the problem for me was that i thought that when i was giving head i was in a submissive position - i am not a submissive type of gal. as i got older, got more comfortable with my sexiness and started talking more candidly with my friends, i found out that most girls/guys feel that giving head is a dominant role! well this started to change my views on the whole thing. now i am an eager participant, when i'm with someone i'm really into. and when we 69, it's on!!! oh man, i can't be thinking about this right now! ------------------ Peace Love Happiness y'all