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How much is admission and is it 21 and up? What are some good clubs under 21 on Friday my friend is only 20 and can't find nowhere to go.

Listen you fu*ker some people have better things to spend their money on then clubs. So shut the hell up you sound like a moron.

Are there any clubs in NJ free for ladies on Friday nights?

It's exactly like that too Destiny if he dosen't wanna get his act together than I can't force him. I can't make him change if he's not ready to do it on his own. And if he does he's gunna resent me for making him do something he wasn't ready for so I gotta either decide to deal with it or not. Trying to change somebody never works.

I think your right Tastyt. I think some of the reason he tries to control is so he knows what I'm doing and where I am so he knows I am not cheating or doing anything wrong. He pretty much tells me he dosen't trust me, but he dosen't trust anybody. Which leaves me in a bad position of loving him, but not being able to deal with somebody with no trust. And when you said that he sees me bettering myself while he's sitting around and realizes that I might outgrow him is tru too. He always thinks I'm going to find someone else because he dosen't meet up to my standards he thinks. Even though I tell him it dosen't really matter what he does, as long as he's TRYING to do something. Effort is key.

Him saying he doesn;t want you going anywhere b/c YOUR PLACE IS IN THE HOUSE WHERE IT'S SAFE..... I hope you don;t listen to him No, I don't listen to him I basically laugh in his face, but I think he has some nerve for even saying it...now you can see why I have doubts:rolleyes:

Do you feel past relationships have an effect on your present one? Like if you got hurt in the past do you take a new relationship more slowly and don't give your trust out as easily? Or do you treat each new relationship as a fresh experience and don't bring in your past issues? I have the disadvantage of my bf being hurt in the past by girls now with me he don't trust me at all cuz he been cheated on he always think bad thoughts. I tell him this is a new relationship, but his head has been fucked up to the point where past issues with other girls effect what WE have. I on the other hand treat every relationship as a new experience with an open mind. I just wish so many good guys heads weren't already fukked up:mad:

How normal is it to have doubts about being with the person your with? I mean I love my bf but I seem to doubt our relationship everyday. For the facts that I'm trying to do whats right go to school, work...while he seems to be out chilling all day. I resent him at times like why do I gotta be the responsible one and you feel like you can do wutever you want. Like he has no plans to ever go to college and he wants a future with us but yet I wonder what a future with somebody like him would be like. I love him, but he is very controlling and don't want me going out without him or with him sometimes cuz he feels my place is in the house were its safe or some bullshit like that. How do you decide to end something that has obvious problems but when you still love them very much and can't picture being without them. When does having doubts go from being normal to being a sign to breakup:confused:

Alezie gets me in the mood, and for somethin cheaper but gets you crunked MD 20/20;) Hard liquor gets me violent and I'm sick of beer. White wine is good too...

I understand where your comming from somebitch. I've had boyfriend's in the past and at the time I thought they were so great and we broke up for wutever reasons and now I look back and think to myself they weren't great at all, now that I've found better. But each relationship you grow and learn from so I can't really regret them. Then I wonder if we stayed together I wouldn't really be the person I am today because I grew so much on my own and began to get to know myself better, which I wouldn't have really done if I had stayed with them. With my current man I wasn't looking for a relationship, I got with him May of last year and the summer was comming up and I was happy to be single. But one night we just hung out and everything was so perfect and the rest is history. Even though we had known each other through friends for over a year, but never really got the chance to chill alone. Like they say you usually find someone when your not even looking. Even though I picture a future with him, I'm only 21 years old and I still wonder what else is out there sometimes. I'm happy with him for the most part, but it's kinda scary to be so serious sometimes. Like for instance he has a problem with me going out without him, he has issues in trust and jealousy because of what girls have done to him in the past. Even though I tell him, this is a different relationship and you have to treat it that way. I love him to death and I can't picture him with anybody else, but I dunno what tommorow holds and you can only go day by day. Sometimes I wish I just knew what was going to happen, because it's a shame to spend years with somebody, only to find out in the end there not the one for you and have to start all over again. So, I think it's good to have an attitude like I'm happy now while we're together, but if we're to break up I could move on and find happiness again. Putting all your feelings and hopes into one person to only have it crumble is devistating, somethin I wish not to go through. The attitude to have is wutever happens, happens...but sometimes it's so hard to be like that when you wake up in the morning and think of the person, go to bed at night thinking of the person and wonder where you'd be without them. Well before I write a book, lemme stop lol

But yea the guy who liked to be sh*t and pissed on had issues, my friend even showed me his "business card" where he advertised he did parties also. Like, if you were having a party he'd stick his head in the toilet the whole time so people could go on him everytime they had to use the bathroom and he'd pay money for it. The worst part is he said he had a wife and kids who obviously had no idea he does this so he handed out a beeper # and said he can only call back at certain times if he wasn't home....

Good Lookin Bkissa, don't know if I could handle talking to all those psychos:eek:

Some people out there are so weird it really makes you think. Like what people really think and do behind closed doors. My friend used to work in this role play place and this guy would come in one day a week for like 8 hours and put his head in the toliet bowl and make everybody there piss and crap on him and pay them 5 for every piss and 10 for every sh*t:eek:

That is scary what kind of pill were you taking?

Who likes to have sex while listening to music? For me I get so more into it while hearing some sexy tunes. Like some music, I feel very seductive and just love to go down on my guy while looking him straight in the eyes. Other music make me so horny I just wanna ride him and f**k his brains out:laugh:

nothing is 100% effective unless not having sex at all, but if you take your pills on time and don't miss any, your chances of getting pregnant are pretty rare.

Anybody ever did this? I heard it's a good way to make good clean money. No physical contact, just talking dirty to get some hornballs off. It would seem more funny than anything else. Get to play a character and get some lonely guys off

It's been so hard to find a job. I've applied everywhere with no response. I don't care what I do I'd be a waitress work at the mall wutever. Anybody know of any positions in the sussex morris or passaic counties?

For everybody whose in a relationship, how long have you been together? How did you meet? Do you see a future with this person or are they just right for right now? What are your favorite things about them? What are your least favorite? I've been with my man for about 10 months now. We met through friends. I see a future together and we talk about it all the time, but who knows what can happen. My favorite things about him is he makes me laugh, we rarely get bored of each other, and we have great conversations. My least favorite things are he has a temper and we fight a lot, he dosen't have the same goals or priorities as me, he's very jealous, and immature. I can't really see my life without him since we're always together, but after 10 moths who knows if it's meant to last, only time will tell......

I've been on ortho tri-cyclen since October. I have no complaints. My periods are more on time, shorter, and lighter. I still get slight cramps the day b4 or the 1st day of my period, but nothing like I used to.

I was thing about tranfering to Berkely college Garret Mountain location in West Paterson for Business Management. Anybody go there or know if it's a good school? I was also looking into William Paterson, Montclair, and Kean. Anybody go to any of these schools? Thanx for any input:)

I never said anything about a sympathy card. I just said stop hating, it just makes you look pathetic, like you have nothin better to do:blown:

50 is hot, your all just haters. He's rappin about the life he led, not saying he's proud of it. It's just something he was dealt, growing up in the ghetto, father died mother murdered when he was 8. He's doing his thing now and gettin paid for it and he don't have to live in the ghetto nomore. You go boy....the rest of you go get a life and stop hating!!

damn hook a sista up, sounds great