I don't know guys, I'm probably very lucky or something but I've only had a few bad experiences in NY clubs. Most of the time when guys talk to me, they are not using those "immediate turn-off" pick up lines. Usually they are not rude and most of the time we just end up chatting for a while and that's it. I think a lot has to do with the way people (especially women) carry themselves. I dress sexy to a club, but I do not act like I am easy and guys see it also. But the point about being stuck-up. I agree, a lot of places are like that. Not only SF and Exit.