My advice to the guy. Just go there, look good, and just dance. And if your a good dancer. Trust me if you do that, girls will come to you. That always happens. I used to always search for girls, and when I find them they surrounded by like 10 guys. That was way back in the day when I first started clubbing. Now I just mind my own business, dance and feel the music, then I look around i'm surrounded by 5 or 6 girls. You catch some glaring at you too, then that's when you make your move. After that you can't be shy cause you know the girl has to be into you if she's looking at you. That's my advice and a little alcohol in the system takes some of that shyness away. But most of all, go there to have fun and dance, not to find girls. You find a girl GREAT, you don't still GREAT you still had a good time. Karch