Hmmmmm....well I was going to tell you to tell your friend not to sweat it. Some people are just huge flirts, and mean nothing by it. I am like that. I flirt with everyone, everyone flirts with me, but I have never cheated on anyone. However, when I got the part about her talking shit behind the kids back, I thought...well now she might be covering her ass...Trying to make it look like she has NO interest in teh kid, just in case her boyfriend started to get some ideas.... Its a complicated situation, but if she has not done anything for him to suspect (other than the flirting) then if he comes out and asks, she may get pissed. Hope I helped...probably not, but still... GOOD LUCK! ------------------ The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.