I think we need to remember the context that we're talking about here. People go to clubs to get drunk, dance, and usually to get noticed. The crap we as females strap and glue ourselves into tends to borderline on obscene half the time. I think sometimes we ask for it honestly, and I'm guilty of it too. I think the actual amount that beauty has to do with the respect you're given in life is infinitely less than it is at some club, thankfully.