this little test you have i use for EVERYONE... not just guys i'm interested in... i have no desire to surround myself with people who have no personalities of their own other then the personalities they fashion for themselves after they meet someone they like... if a guy ever did that i would def. walk away... i have no patience for stupidity and the like... as for my initial post - you got it wrong. i wrote this thread because i was frustrated because people say all these things... i want to settle i wish i had someone to love i miss being in a relationship blah blah blah... ...yet... all they do play games... meaningless sex with one girl after the other i mean yeah, people need to fuck but it's not that serious... esp. when one day you're saying, "oh... i wanna stop... this random fucking is getting me no where... blah blah blah..." i understand that people lie... that they're are almost always facade's we have to break down in order to see the REAL person beneath the bullshit... i agree... those asshole's that we meet all the time probably weren't always assholes... someone most likely fucked them up, broke their heart and because of that they decided to be cold and fucked up to everyone after that... i understand why people say girl's always go for the assholes and that guys always go for the hot fake bitches... yeah - there are girls who go for the hot cars but you know what NOT ALL GIRLS! just like not all guy's want those fake looking hot girls... and hell yeah - there is no one out there who is nice at all times without an edge of meaness... it's called being human... blah... i don't know if im even making sense...