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The greatest part of relationships is when the magic exists. This may not be the celestial God like love that Darlok speaks of, but it is not purely base sex either. Furthermore, how can base sex really sustain all that long or really end up being any better than masturbation? If you see some girl who you really want to fuck however, there is nothing wrong in going for her. In my opinion there's nothing wrong with lust, and you shouldn't think that you LACK sex with women, so in this respect fucking a lot of high quality women could be a very positive thing for your self-esteem, so long as you look out for purity. And this doesn't preclude greater love experiences. Remember, you ARE having sex with a person. Not a body. If love and sex seem intrinsically intertwined, it may be because we _are_ love, and so anything we do with others aside from plain business transactions involves love on some level. It seems to me personally that love/sex with many women is a very positive thing. Limiting yourself to one person, looking or waiting for that "special someone" seems totally stupid to me. For by doing that, you are passing up experiences with everyone else. Positive experiences, which if you want them, could improve your life. Well, at least it's good that we're trying to figure this out.

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The greatest part of relationships is when the magic exists. This may not be the celestial God like love that Darlok speaks of, but it is not purely base sex either. Furthermore, how can base sex really sustain all that long or really end up being any better than masturbation? If you see some girl who you really want to fuck however, there is nothing wrong in going for her. In my opinion there's nothing wrong with lust, and you shouldn't think that you LACK sex with women, so in this respect fucking a lot of high quality women could be a very positive thing for your self-esteem, so long as you look out for purity. And this doesn't preclude greater love experiences. Remember, you ARE having sex with a person. Not a body. If love and sex seem intrinsically intertwined, it may be because we _are_ love, and so anything we do with others aside from plain business transactions involves love on some level. It seems to me personally that love/sex with many women is a very positive thing. Limiting yourself to one person, looking or waiting for that "special someone" seems totally stupid to me. For by doing that, you are passing up experiences with everyone else. Positive experiences, which if you want them, could improve your life. Well, at least it's good that we're trying to figure this out.

Whatever dude. You are being a mental retard. What you speak of about love is only what's possible. Other things are possible as well. "There are more things in heaven and earth than are dreampt of in your philosophy horatio...." And I don't know why you would "restrain" yourself from sex. A person wanting sex without love? My point is that love is always there. I love everybody.... at least all whom I continue to associate with.

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There's nothing wrong with lust, if sex is what you want. Aside from the moral implications of unwanted babies, which exist whether you are in love or in lust with someone else, lust from sexual desire is just one thing which may attract you to a person. You can love someone quite easily, even if you've just met and barely know them, or you can have sex just for the sake of sex. Every relationship is different. Sex out of lust can turn to love, or it can turn to sex just for fun with a friend! There's nothing wrong with this at all, although your point about higher levels of love and awareness with someone is well taken. Sex just for sex's sake without relating to the other person would be sort of empty. The most important thing in love or friendship, is COMMUNICATION, but this doesn't have to be taken as some sort of extreme doctrine! Sitting around a campfire with someone and not speaking to them might be sort of empty too! What is disgusting or wrong is using someone. Trying to get _from_ them, instead of trying to get _with_ them. Using a person, taking for your own sexual cravings without regard for the other person, i.e. projecting your egotistical sexual lacks on to them, and expecting them to fill them, without concern or regard for _them_ when they are not doing the same with you, seems to me to be well, rather disgusting. In this respect, mutual desire just has to ~happen~. Whatever is done should be done _with_ them. I don't know what I'm trying to explain exactly, but I do feel that sometimes there are negative aspects of sex, I think it is when it is more one sided. Whatever is done is best done _together_ Like a strip club may seem disgusting to some people. Why, because you're using those women, it's not quite their choice. You could hire someone to play tennis with you as well. And that wouldn't seem disgusting. You pay a cabbie, you pay all sorts of people to serve you. It's not disgusting however.... Likewise prostitution might not seem disgusting if the girl fucks you, takes her money, performs a service. But using people is rather disgusting.... I don't know if it's clear what I'm getting at. On the other hand, there's nothing wrong with satifying your own self-interests and self-gratification, though it's obviously unrealistic to treat other people as inanimate objects. i.e. back to the blow up doll or rent a hooker, how base can we get? I'm not sure why you think that no one here can express love, and that everyone expresses only lust. Everyone knows the truth/love to some extent, I think hardly anyone truly knows God, for to know God would be to know all things, like people talk of Jesus or something. Sex is definitely an at of relating. At least it should be! Going camping is an act of relating as well. My point was that whatever you are doing with somebody you are relating to them! In my opinion, there's nothing shameful about sex at all. People are just sexually repressed because we wear clothes and don't often have sex in front of each other, and people are brainwashed by their parents or society because of the moral risk of conceiving unwanted babies..... which is the only thing that makes sex "sinful" (risk of unwanted babies) I don't agree with your comments about bonding. In my opinion, set something free, if it's real, it will still exist when you come back to it. What I can't stand, and what must be guarded against is co-dependency. Bonding through guilt, projection of one's perceived lacks onto the other person as if they could fill the lack which you perceive to exist in yourself! A need for "bond's" comes from the belief that you are alone. You are never alone. Reach out to people. Love to me is very easy. You can love someone and break up with them, and not feel any pain, because you know you don't lack or need them. Of course, this entails recognizing that there are 6,000,000,000 other people out there with whom you can communicate with. And having friends, and other girls you know so that you're not so enamored with one female that you forget YOURSELF!! There should always be people who are there for you in this world, if you have tons of people then you will not feel the need to "bond" with one person, nor will you feel pain when one person leaves you. Their choice is as good as yours, isn't it? Of course, you still develop relationships with people.... I'm not sure what you mean by "bonding" lol, perhaps a better understanding of relationships themselves is needed here. It may take some pondering. Relationships form the foundation of our human existence. I don't think so though, if you WANT sex, that is all that matters! Desire is a good thing, distinguished from temptation. Temptation comes from despair or is something that you don't really want. Your WILL must never be forgotten, for to know God, you must know the will he gave you, which, when all contradictions pass away is what God and you ARE. Also, I totally disagree with you that all people express is LUST. While that is obviously sometimes as aspect of attraction towards another person, it would be unlikely that attraction towards someone with a hot body but a negative personality would sustain UNLESS a person saw him or herself as lacking in sexual prospects (i.e they're desprerate). So in that case read alt.seduction.fast or something. Furthermore I find myself attracted to girls based on who they are, looking past only hotness. I mean come on Darlock, you can't be so shallow or seriously think that people don't make choices of association based on personality ...... lol. Like I said, whatever you do with another person you are relating to them, and sex is as good as going out to dinner. If it's something you both WANT, then it's fine. The Apocalypse has already happened for some people. The Bible leads the way to secret spiritual truths, and an "end" (or beginning)quite different from the mainstream apocalyptic fantasies of Jesus' return to fight "Satan" in the final battle for the planet. If the book of Revelations is anything, it is metaphorical. P.S. as for marriage, I see no reason to get married except to raise children. In all probability, marriage is doomed to deteriorate into a platonic relationship, a mere partnership. I guess if you want structure or family life you get married. To each his own, but you should be careful not to count on marriage to fulfill all your social (or even sexual, love) needs. Which is why marriage is problematic. Kind of a stupid idea to begin with, why imprison yourself to another person? It's contrary to truth (freedom). Which is probably why the divorce rate is so high. So be careful about who you marry and what sort of relationship you're entering into.... or give up the ring.... throw it into the fire, lol Or conclude we're f*cked in the first place and that it doesn't really matter. Just kidding. No, if that's the conclusion take steps to improve your life, you CAN make it on your own. And now I've become like darlock, preaching to myself (well, who else is there to learn from?) And why do we expect that we would want to stay with the same person for our whole lives? I suppose if you really knew and loved a certain person it MIGHT be different. But why exlude all the other potential sex/love relationships out there? It makes no sense to me except for the practical matters of raising children, adding structure to society perhaps....

You might be interested in Tom Chetwynds "Dictionary for Dreamers." http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/tg/detail/-/1855382954/qid=1060586047/sr=1-1/ref=sr_1_1/002-5033821-0254437?v=glance&s=books You could also go to the bookstore and look things up in several dream books for free!

Love is meaning. Love is what you are. Love is God because to know love is to know God. God is the creator. God is Love. Love creates love. You are love, a creation of love, a miracle. Love creates love. Love is actually all there is. Everything else is but a block to the awareness of love's presence. We are living eternal life right now. Fear is the opposite of love, but fear does not actually exist. Love can be seen and known in yourself, in others, and in the world around you. All positive relations between one or more people involve love. Sex is an act of relating, and so must involve love. It just depends what level you are experiencing things on. For we have bodies like animals and can experience our bodies having sex as if we were animals. But we are not of the earth, dead as the cement, we are of life, (as are all LIVING things in this world for that matter), so it matters WHO we are experience sex _with_ because on another level we are relating to whomever we are having sex with. OTHERwise, sex would just be a mechanical action. Think of having sex with someone you are UNattracted to. Think of having sex with a supermodel. Ultimately good or bad sex will on some level depend upon how you RELATE to the other person. OTHERwise, why not just get one of those blow up dolls and fuck that? Also, I think it's all in your mind. And this shouldn't be surprising since all is thought! While all thoughts of love are true, and forever remain eternal, what passes for love in this world is often twisted and warped. It is important to realize that freedom is the only gift you can give to one another. Love and truth always go hand and hand with freedom, and freedom always goes hand and hand with love and truth, because God gives us freedom, and we are free in God. Truth, Love, Freedom, Light, Life. You know all these things naturally, and all else is a meaningless journey. But the truth of life (love) is so important and dear and real, that we must be insane to ever look upon anything else. Love is all there is, but it matters what you are experiencing, and on what level, and with who. As you choose to find your awareness grow, you shall see that all is love is everywhere and in everything as you are. Our bodies are communication devices, WE are love, makers through our thoughts of the world we see. God, the Father, Love, creates our true identity, which is limitless, all encompassing, the Christ, Love, the Son of God. This world is at once a flash in the pan, and eternity in a single moment. The world is samsura..... illusion. The truth is life, and can be known while still in the world, or after leaving the world. God is everywhere. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- If you want to know, you will. If you don't want to know, you won't (until you do).

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Well if that's what you want to do, go ahead, it's your choice. But I don't think that it should be done against anyone's will or without their consent. I'm sure it's very painful for babies as well, something that wasn't yet mentioned. As far as pierced ears go, I don't think pierced ears are as big of a deal as circumcision, because holes close up, or are unoticeable. Circumcision is more serious and irreversible, but in any case, I think parents should have to wait until children can make the choice for themselves, and children shouldn't be presured into it. And even so, if your 10 year old wanted to split his tongue down the center would you let him? I think not! Circumcision is sort of like that. I say make them wait until they're a teenager age 13, or maybe even until age 18.

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