yeah i realize it's cheating, i was just wondering what everyone else thought.. her boy is a good friend of mine and i feel almost obliged to tell him if she doesn't chose to. I'm hoping she'll realize what happened and just come clean about it but she just doesn't want to hear it. Bottom line is she doesn't think she cheated and swears the if her boy were to have done it she wouldn't care which I know is total bullshit.