the infinite pursuit of happiness, is why some dont commit, and in the same vein why others do. either individual is looking for the one person that can make them eternally happy, but the only individual that can make you happy is yourself. why is that the same people that I encounter that go out of their way looking for love, relationships and commitments are the same individuals who hate their jobs, hate situations well hate is such a strong adjective but dislike their lifestyles. what is the correlation between the two? are they looking for a person to solve their problems or is it that misery just loves company? or are they addicted to the emphatic feeling of love? to say that there is only one correct reason why all people do look for love and commitments and relationships would be ridiculous, since every person is different in their own way. each person traveled a different journey to get to where they are at that point in their lives. whether happy or sad, angry or mad it leads them to the next road, to the next turning point which down the line leads them to happiness. whether we travel alone or with a partner is up to fate. you can fuck with fate. what will be will be what will not wont, the sooner we all relise this the sooner we get on with our lives and everything else falls into place.