I really don't consider this a cheating issue. It's more like a confession. Which in my opinion is a totally differenet thing. If he confesses it means that he really cared about the person to tell them the truth. Remember its only ceating if you get caught. TO ALL THE MEN I WARN YOU, NEVER, EVER, EVER CONFESS. If you confess then you become her bitch and she will never let you forget it. And besides she will never trust you ever again anyway. After the confession if she decides to keep you you are going to be on lojack, a.k.a nextel phone. She will remember that until the day she dies or the day she kills you. Once again NEVER, EVER, EVERRRRRRRRR, CONFESS. By the way, women really don't want to know deep down anyway. There first response will be "why did you tell me that." Thank god I'm single...