True guys can be very misleading sometimes, but girls also don't see the handwriting on the wall.. In this case the it was fucked up what those guys did, but married people are a different breed, than us single ones. Personally just leave them alone. I know a girl who got caught up in a sex fling with a married man, she broke it off, he was obsessed with her. He called her all the time on her cell, the guys wife goes through the cell bill, finds all these calls late at night to this girl cell, and the wife calls the girl and is trying to go after her. It is nuts, she just should have let him be, and he should have not even done it in the first place