Here's some really good advice for the guys. It works for me. If you're going to become friends with a girl, make sure she is ugly or doesn't have anything you are looking for in a woman. That way you will never want anything more than friendship. I say ugly because we all know what beasts men can be when we get drunk. The goggles kick in and our standards for selecting women is gone. If she's ugly and you're drunk, you might have enough standards left in yourself to say no and go home. If the girl is good looking, you will NEVER really be friends. The only thing on your mind would be " damn, I would look real good in her"!