"Boca-bitches" are most of the population up here, hon. Sux. Yes, there are some with hearts, and minds, and NOT looking for the Boca-guidos that cater to their needs. They are like that, cuz there are guys FOR them (not me).I think to work hard, play hard, and still being able to smile, and enjoy what you have worked hard for is the balance we all need. Lastly... is that so hard to ask of ANYONE? The club scene, and the REAL music... toleration will only lead to the understanding.