a pm from lorelai604 re:your post hey i hope it's cool i PMed you about your post instead of on the board.... i had the same hesitation with the guy i was dating for awhile....it just depends on your mindset and how much you trust your guy to take it slow or whatever cause i heard it's a bitch if a guy isn't careful. so......just depends on your relationship, ya know? :eek: :eek: :laugh: :laugh: