marcid21 Posted May 4 Report Share Posted May 4 how do you guys see yourselves ((the single people)) in the dating scene?Lately I've been kind of seeing myself as a little"stand-offish"...and others have noticed it too. I could analyze the whole thing, but I'd rather not. I'm just wondering if any of you can step "outside the box" and see yourselves the way you really are? And do we know how to fix it?((this could just be some tired mindless babble from a tired Pip Squeek)) :confused: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nayohmee Posted May 4 Report Share Posted May 4 What I always do (& Ive tried to stop but its next to impossible) is I'm all outgoing until the other person seems interested and then I get all wierded out and crawl into a shell sort of. It really sucks because Ive pissed alot of people off that way. *Naomi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Teknojunkee Posted May 5 Report Share Posted May 5 See...im a nice guy. The one that you never think is out there. Funny thing is that most women seem to want the "bad-boy". You can say thats because they are "young" and what not, but you get my point. Im not really outgoing. That i see as my problem. I look at these guys in clubs and they just go up to these girls and start touching them and all this... i cant do that. I see it as being rude. Im kind of prude i guess you can say. 20 years old and have never been with a girl in anyway (besides kissing) I finally see alittle change lately in myself. I can now start a conversation and pursue a girl if i see a hint of interest but i dont ever think i will be the "normal guy." I have confidence in myself, i think im good looking, great personality, great family values, money, good job etc...To me there is just no light at the end of the tunnel. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thehacker Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 i am often capable of trying to see myself as others might see me, and then i realize a lot of that's not really change-able and is just part of the whole kit and kaboodle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
puck Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 dude....clubhop i had the same problem. i used be like you. i find a lot of things that are being done in our generation as rude or just primitive to the standard of civilized people. but where i have improved is that im more outgoing and often times as a result the girl and i have a lot of fun. secondly if thought about this a while now and i've to the conclusion that its not good to hold back and to be shy, timid , because you'll loose a lot of interesting moments in life that others have or dont have. you cant be all worried about the risk if you dont even try to Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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