nycmuzik Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . I really don't know what I want anymore . . . . . On one hand, I want to satisfy pure physical desire, on the other I'd really like the feeling of someone being "close" to me . . . I search for one and it never appears, so I search for the other thinking that the other one will happen (you know that whole load of bullshit about it happening when you least expect it . . ) . . and it never does . . so why even try anymore . . I agree with you 100%....I thought I knew but right now I'm just confused...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by phuturephunk . . I really don't know what I want anymore . . . . . On one hand, I want to satisfy pure physical desire, on the other I'd really like the feeling of someone being "close" to me . . . I search for one and it never appears, so I search for the other thinking that the other one will happen (you know that whole load of bullshit about it happening when you least expect it . . ) . . and it never does . . so why even try anymore . . . . There's something beautiful about solitude . . if you can fortify your soul to handle it . . . you havent shaved your head and started your mantras yet have you?I'm kidding...key word in your post is "search"...the times that i have "found" a mate has been while praying and thinking about someone to come into my life, giving it energy to happen...searching never really worked for me...you sound solid yet fragile...confident yet insecure...like you're ok being alone but want somebody...hope that someone finds you...i would like to be with somebody for the sole reason of sharing...there seems to be so much more to life for me when you share a laugh, a tear, a sunset...i was born to give, i was born to share...in fact, i would say i am a better person when in a relationship than not...sad but true... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by phatman you sound solid yet fragile...confident yet insecure...like you're ok being alone but want somebody...hope that someone finds you...i would like to be with somebody for the sole reason of sharing...there seems to be so much more to life for me when you share a laugh, a tear, a sunset...i was born to give, i was born to share...in fact, i would say i am a better person when in a relationship than not...sad but true... Solitude sucks worse than anything... it's good to be able to be by yourself, but not to *have* to be alone...I totally hear you on the sharing thing... everything is alot more real somehow when there's someone else there to experience it with you... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 A nice back massage:grin3: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by chula22 A nice back massage:grin3: I could use one of those also.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by nycmuzik2000 I could use one of those also.... Well I'll tell you what...You do me and I'll do u. ANd keep it above the belt buddy:tongue: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by chula22 Well I'll tell you what...You do me and I'll do u. ANd keep it above the belt buddy:tongue: Dont worry. I promise to be a good boy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by chula22 A nice back massage:grin3: I need something else rubbed...i mean massaged... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chula22 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 well Phatman I do believe that MuzikMan was first in line. But I think I could hook u up with one of my fine proteges. Cause i dont do the rubbing, Oops i mean massaging thingy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scaredgirl Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I think is very hard to understand what we exactly want ; sometimes im so happy with the person im with and sometimes i need to be alone but i got to the conclusion that human in certain way is not ready to be with one person for the rest of them lives im not saying marriage is a jail or something like that but i think is so hard to promise to someone to love her/him for the rest of our lives if we can't even know what will happened the next day.i read all this in a book and belive me it really open my eyes all what i read over there because i really understand that we have the power to be alone , we have the capacity to make anything we want but must of people is really afraid to be alone because they dont know how to be in this way completely alone , with silence , we often have to hear noise like TV ON or music because we really cant stand to be alone ... so my advice is is better to do what ever you feel to do if u want to be alone and hang out with so many people is ok, if u want to be single for the rest of ur life is ok , if u want to be with so many people is ok too; there is nothing to be afraid i don't know why people still thinking that we all need a partner to be complete is totally wrong we don't somebody to make us feel better we just feel the need to have someone to speak and shared etc.. and also dont get with someone just because people is saying that u are becoming old and single because we often heard what our family or friends said to us and it really affect our decisions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hardtopleaz Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 I have always been one to want something meaningful, that's just the kinda person I am - I like being with a special someone and I'm not the kind of person that would be able to deal with meaningless sex. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyclubber01 Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 something meaningful.Ive had the assIve had the inbetweenI need something more Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted May 8 Report Share Posted May 8 Originally posted by marcid21 Ass or something meaningful? :confused: LOVE. then MONEY... the rest will fall into place. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted May 9 Author Report Share Posted May 9 Originally posted by sexyclubber01 something meaningful.Ive had the assIve had the inbetweenI need something more sexy....I love the song in your sig!!!! I was gonna quote part of it in my sig....Anywho...yes DG, the ol' Wise One...I agree those seem like the two important things....Love is #1 cause that's what really makes you happy...and then money in order to support the love......somehow everything just makes sense after that... when your in love...bizaar:blank: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sexyclubber01 Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Originally posted by marcid21 sexy....I love the song in your sig!!!! I was gonna quote part of it in my sig....Anywho...yes DG, the ol' Wise One...I agree those seem like the two important things....Love is #1 cause that's what really makes you happy...and then money in order to support the love......somehow everything just makes sense after that... when your in love...bizaar:blank: lol thanks - its the new Jewel song "break me" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Originally posted by marcid21 Anywho...yes DG, the ol' Wise One...I agree those seem like the two important things....Love is #1 cause that's what really makes you happy...and then money in order to support the love......somehow everything just makes sense after that... when your in love...bizaar:blank: far from wise... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
az-tec Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Ive been single long enough...Im ready to wake up everyday next to someone Im in love with...but until that happens. im still gonna have me sum fun... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hitokiri24 Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 i guess good ol' toe curlin, lamp knockin, bed thumpin sex .oO( haven t had that in a while:cry: ) feels like i need to be reacquainted with itan i guess money- but hey who doesn t need it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hugepiece Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 a fat ass to fuck that can cook in the morning set the table and leave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fierydesire Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Originally posted by scaredgirl I think is very hard to understand what we exactly want ; sometimes im so happy with the person im with and sometimes i need to be alone but i got to the conclusion that human in certain way is not ready to be with one person for the rest of them lives im not saying marriage is a jail or something like that but i think is so hard to promise to someone to love her/him for the rest of our lives if we can't even know what will happened the next day.i read all this in a book and belive me it really open my eyes all what i read over there because i really understand that we have the power to be alone , we have the capacity to make anything we want but must of people is really afraid to be alone because they dont know how to be in this way completely alone , with silence , we often have to hear noise like TV ON or music because we really cant stand to be alone ... so my advice is is better to do what ever you feel to do if u want to be alone and hang out with so many people is ok, if u want to be single for the rest of ur life is ok , if u want to be with so many people is ok too; there is nothing to be afraid i don't know why people still thinking that we all need a partner to be complete is totally wrong we don't somebody to make us feel better we just feel the need to have someone to speak and shared etc.. and also dont get with someone just because people is saying that u are becoming old and single because we often heard what our family or friends said to us and it really affect our decisions I agree with you after reading this. It is hard cause generally people want that someone forever, but why should that be, why cant we just go with the flow, live life and do as we want. Yet one thing I disagree on is that we cant promise someone forever. I guess I still believe in that such as fairy tales. It is possible to give someone everything and be with them forever...so everything else you said is definitely on point IMO. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJGaryMatthews Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 id def take some steamy one nite stand ass...but im in real need of something meaningful. i need that feeling of comfortableness and stability. i need that person there who i know cares bout me.but i just cant find that one person to share that with. a few girls were likely candidates, but they never give me the time of day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bigpoppanils Posted May 9 Report Share Posted May 9 Originally posted by sexyclubber01 Jewel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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