ReginaP Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Do you think it's okay for outside parties to comment on the inside of a couple's relationship when they don't know what's going on? And if they weren't EVER asked and would never BE asked?I don't thiiiiink so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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elitesnautica Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Sorry, I was just trying to help.Nautica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted June 19 Author Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by elitesnautica Sorry, I was just trying to help.Nautica Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nycmuzik Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 ::sigh:: Oh boy...... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xxlea Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 You'll always have nosy people that swear they know everything about everything and won't hestitate to let others know!! These are also the type of persons that only know one side of the story and base their *opinions* on that. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
phatman Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 gosh darn it.. i thought this thread would be about picnics, bbqs, etc...anyone up for a good luaii...(we could all get laid... ) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tastyt Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Oh dear. Sometimes people have good intentions, sometimes they're just plain busybodies, but they need to learn to keep their nose out of other peoples' bidness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 sounds to me like someones bitter. . .people like that (the type who have no clue whats going on and butt in on other peoples relationships) area) really lonley and just jealousor bitter that they fucked up their own relationships so they want others to screw their own.i hate people like that. . .its never good intentions if you're the 3rd party and your advice was never asked for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
echostar Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 n/m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by ReginaP Do you think it's okay for outside parties to comment on the inside of a couple's relationship when they don't know what's going on? And if they weren't EVER asked and would never BE asked?I don't thiiiiink so. they can comment on what they say... but that may not be always what is... third party advice / constructive criticism is always a plus... and in something as difficult as relationships all the advice you get is great... im not saying you should adhere to it or do what ppl say but take bits and pieces from everyone and blah... does this make sense??? anyhoo... if it bothers you tell them to mind their biz... good luck.. . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted June 19 Author Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by dgmodel they can comment on what they say... but that may not be always what is... third party advice / constructive criticism is always a plus... and in something as difficult as relationships all the advice you get is great... im not saying you should adhere to it or do what ppl say but take bits and pieces from everyone and blah... does this make sense??? anyhoo... if it bothers you tell them to mind their biz... good luck.. . Thanks, but it's not something that was said to me or about me It's more along the lines of what my kitty was talking about--people that are bitter and jealous and think they are "better than" my best friend for someone. Keep yo mouth shuuuuut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dgmodel Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 ooops sorry... well hope things work out soon... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
clubkat Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 so i had a point? woohooOOOOo!!! ~who woulda thought i actually had something of solid fact to say~ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ReginaP Posted June 19 Author Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by clubkat so i had a point? woohooOOOOo!!! ~who woulda thought i actually had something of solid fact to say~ Oh it's a fact baby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Originally posted by ReginaP Do you think it's okay for outside parties to comment on the inside of a couple's relationship when they don't know what's going on? And if they weren't EVER asked and would never BE asked?I don't thiiiiink so. Sometimes its ok for a CLOSE friend to analyze a relationship, WHEN ASKED, but for an "outsider" to do it is incredibly out of line.Most likely the reason would be to break up the couple... maybe because of (as you mentioned) jealousy or something...thats pretty sad, people just don't have respect for people anymore. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted June 19 Report Share Posted June 19 Doing something as stupid as putting your $0.02 where it dosen't belong is really assinine....You would think people would have enough of maturity to let things go, and deal with the consequences of one's actions...Regina, I'm sorry your friend was targeted in something so juvenille. It's apparent that it was all done out of pure bitterness and resentment.....any parties affected by this should take into consideration this source and it's credibility...I'm sure after you think long and hard about that, you'll feel better.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cintron Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Regina... you know i love you girl and you're awesome and whatnot...but. I'm really mad. Reeeeeeeeeeallly mad.I was SO excited for a party in the woods or on a beach or something. I was like "WOW maybe she got some really awesome terrace in a building? or snagged a huge empty field?OH BOY maybe she's throwing the party out on a PIER!!!!nope. you led me on, you teased me and then you slammed the door babes. NOT cool I was hoping for some serious outdoor dance action, you tease. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoozi8 Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 I think sometimes people may make comments in passing to make one of the people in the relationship feel better or something, but in reality they don't know what they're talking about..... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marcid21 Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by cintron Regina... you know i love you girl and you're awesome and whatnot...but.I'm really mad. Reeeeeeeeeeallly mad.I was SO excited for a party in the woods or on a beach or something. I was like "WOW maybe she got some really awesome terrace in a building? or snagged a huge empty field?OH BOY maybe she's throwing the party out on a PIER!!!!nope. you led me on, you teased me and then you slammed the door babes. NOT cool I was hoping for some serious outdoor dance action, you tease. Dude...there's always G's balcony....I loved that balcony!!!! ....do i feel another Orgy coming on???? **does the midget Happy Dance** Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joeg Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 Originally posted by marcid21 **does the midget Happy Dance** Is that anything like the joeg shuffle? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snoozi8 Posted June 20 Report Share Posted June 20 no I think it entails springs on your shoes and Hudson Street hehe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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